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Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though.
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If you love two, you don't love eitheR one enough.. peRiod; no possible way aRound that fact. Though unfoRtunate, I say you'Re betteR off picking up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and walking away fRom this Relationship. She obviously doesn't "love" you, because if she did she wouldn't want anyone else... because no one else in the woRld would be able to compaRe to you, and to what the two of you have togetheR. Love is RecipRocal, my fRiend, it's not just one-sided. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? I'm telling you to use youR head, and think of youR *OWN* well being on this one -- Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this chick; she's not woRthy. I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance! Know that I am *ALWAYS, ALWAYS* heRe if you eveR need a second opinion. Chin up, DaRlin'... you'll be alRight. =D
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If she is confused she must like both of you. She probably is playing both sides. If she picks him you just have to move on. You don't want someone who doesn't put you ahead of the rest. It will be hard but you'll get through it. :)
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Don't let this girl play with your heart anymore - break up with her and forget about her. As cliché as it sounds there will be other girls and this isn't the end of the world. It'll be alright as long as you don't let her walk all over you.
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Hey,
If A girl is playing u ..u need to drop her. She wants to feel if she doesnt like the guy anymore she can come running back to u. You have to show her that your only gonna be for her for so long and if she loves u like she says she should have picked you. You need to drop her cause if shes gonna do that to you shes not even worth it!!!!
Yours Truley,
Delila
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If she picks him then I'm sorry to say this but you need to try and move on. Even though you love her. If she picks him and things don't work and then you let her come back to you then she might do this agian. You need to tell her how you feel. Let her know that you want to be with her but if she doesn't want to be with you then you have to try and move on. I'm sorry that you have to go through this.
Good luck and I hope things work out with you and your girlfriend
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truth be told, she sounds like she's just playing games. it sounds to me like she's just wanting to have fun with you both and not to bring your hopes down but there's probably more than just you and this other guy with her. It's a game and until she loses, the game won't end.
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If she doesnt pick you...then forget about her. She obviously is not worth your time. Sorry to sound so rude..but if she really truly cared about you she wouldnt need to think a second before chosing you. It is to unfair to you. You should just move on, and im sure you will find someone who will respect and love you as much as you yourself has to offer. Hope i helped!
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Well its pretty much her descision so u let her choose who she wants if she chooses the other guy then thats okay. She's not the only girl in the world. you can probably find another girl that likes you too.
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Girls point of view... you should talk to the "other guy"... see what she is saying to her... she may be sincerly confused and loves you but from out of no where this guy comes... or she could be trying to have two guys at once... i don't really now her to say witch she is doing... just ask the guy and such... and talk to her... tell her whats on your mind... if she loves you than you two shoudln't have a problem... good luck and i hope i helped...
Gomesy
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This is common. Girls just want what they don't have. All this wanting to be picked stuff...you're not an item! She's treating you like her property, which she shouldn't do. You may think you're in love with her, but you deserve much better than this. Tell her that she doesn't have to make the decision, if she's going to treat you like her pet then you want nothing to do with it. Stick to it, no matter how much she begs for you to take her back. You need someone much better. Good luck! =)
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