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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks
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i think you should break up wit him.. he is selfish and doesnt care about other people. you need a guy to be spendin all of his money on you not you spendin it on the guy.. hope this helps yopu out.
*~Stephanie~*
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girls should pay too. guys dont like wasting money all the time :
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Thats messed up! This guy is a rude and selfish a-hole. You should confront him, try to get your money back from him and then definitely dump him. I mean if he really wanted popcorn he could of asked nicely and said thank you but instead he just took away all of your money and spent the money for himself on his lil shopping spree. Don't let this guy take advantage of you and stand up for yourself. If you stay with him he might continue to take advantage of you and continue spending your money. This guy probably isn't the right person for you and the person that you are meant to be with is out there but you haven't met him yet. ♥ Peachgirly
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He's selfish. Ditch him.
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julia! man that was rude of him! i think you should call him or sumthing and tell him that wasnt cool and that you work hard to get that money! and next time he does that to you kick him in the nuts and take all his money! oh yeah, Fall Out Boy Rocks Hardcore!!!!! <3 :)
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first of all, it was really mean of him to do that. if u dont care for him that much bc he did thta, i would dump him ASAP. but if you really have feelings for him then try to talk it over with him. try calling him and tell him how it made you feel. i know it was your first date and everything but still, the first date counts. i will i-m you tomorrow and maybe i will get a chance to talk it over with you. i am brunettecutie, i will identify myself.
<3 brunettecutie*
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Yeah you need to get rid of him. I was brought up to always pay for the girl your on the date with and that is how it should be. Him taking your money and spending it on himself on your date shows he has no manners or any real respect for you. Sorry but in my honest opinion you got no business going out with him if he is going to be like that, no business at all. Hope this advice helps and you make a good decision on this!
-Ryan
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your bf sounds really greedy and selfish. no matter what age you are, when you take a girl out, you are suppose to pay for everything lol its just simple manners! call me old fashion but i dont beleive in girls having to spend money on a date..your doing him a favor by going out with him...thats enough ha but yeah....let him know you dont think its gonna work out..its better to stop going out now rather than when you start hating him...just be friends for now.
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i know you dont want to talk to him but lets be honest... you need to! the guys a jerk and conceited. you dont need that little boy no matter how hot he is or whatever. you need someone who cares about you too and not just your money call him or write him or ask a friend to come with you to talk to him for support whatever it takes you need to get rid of him hope i helped.
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So... why exactly is this guy your boyfriend?
No, really... why?
He's stealing your money and spending it on shit.
That's not "kinda selfish"... that's acting like an asshole.
Why are you with this guy? Perhaps he was just having a "asshole" night? Maybe he'll give you $50 in return... or maybe you need to give this "boyfriend" some serious though on how he treats you and wether or not he should actually be allowed to be your boyfriend.
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