Starting about two months before summer i started liking this guy- we got really drunk one night and were making out~ we had hung out alot before that night but i had never looked at him that way or had feelings for him like i did. After that night we hung out alot and usually ended up doing stuff. It lasted throughout the summer, and i really liked him, he would tell me how much he loved me and how he had never met anyone like me, i meant Everything to him and he meant everything to me. He always bothered me to have sex with him, we had been fighting like the beginning of september, one night i was just so sick of fighting with him i just said lets do it maybe it will make things better so we did. The next day we didn't talk, the week after that we didn't talk either. finally i got to discuss what had happend with him and he told me he needed time, it was over but he still cared for me. Now he just treats me like shit doesn't care how i feel about any of this and just ignores me all the time, it just seems like we never loved at all he just hates me. what should i do to finally understand what happens, what should i ask him to know what happend between us that ruined out relashionship?????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BabyGurl_1503 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:55 pm: i think he was just in it for the sex because usually thats how it ends up. they tell you they love you and just how much they need you in their lives and how you willl be together forever just to get you into bed and once they get what they want theyre jerks. it happened to me to this past summer only we werent drunk. my advice to you is just try to get over him and move on. hes a jerk and that was his own dumbness for doing that to you. soon hell probably think about how stupid he was and by then itll be to late for him but you just need to try to focus on other stuff and try to ignore him as well. the more you try to talk to him the more itll hurt and stay on your mind. i hope i helped. sorry if i didnt. Good luck [ BabyGurl_1503's advice column | Ask BabyGurl_1503 A Question ]
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