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The "Other Girl"


Question Posted Monday October 18 2004, 10:33 pm

I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 1:46 pm:
No you didnt know and he was the one making this mistake and not you so dont get the idea that your a slut because your not its all on him girl

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socalblondie0202 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 6:27 pm:
haha no that doesnt make you a slut that makes ur friend a horrible person! thats really crapy of him to go and do that...GOOD LUCK!
_Lisa

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XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 4:49 pm:
This doesn't make you a slut at all! It's your friends fault becuz if he would have told you before that he had a girlfriend then this wouldn't have happened. Don't feel guilty for someone elses mistakes Hope I helped:-)!! Rate me!!
<3Juliet<3

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BashfulBowler answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 4:36 pm:
No this does not make you a slut. You did not know that he had a girlfriend so you are completely innocent. He is the bad person in this situation because he cheated on his girl. But dont feel like your a slut cuz your not! :-)

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auntybecki answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 11:48 am:
no of corse this doesnt make u a slut.the real definition of a slut is if u sleep with loadsa guys and arent goin out with them.
if u didnt no he had a girlfriend u av dun nothing rong.if his gf finds out n she starts to argue with u,then tell her that u didnt no about her.
ur def not a slut and havent dun nethin rong!xx

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BabyGurl_1503 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 5:08 am:
no this doesnt make you a slut. he should have told you he had a girl and he didnt and if he would have then you wouldnt have done it right? right. so dont beat yourself up your not a slut. this just makes him a crappy boyfriend and friend.

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mysticpixie05 answered Monday October 18 2004, 11:08 pm:
Its not your fault. It is his. H should of told you he had a girl. That just makes him look like an ass. Your not a slut.

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xpilzex answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:56 pm:
wow he's an ass, go ask him why he is not going out with a boy and a cow at the same time...

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advice_now_2334 answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:50 pm:
THIS DOES NOT MAKE U LOOK LIKE A SLUT. IT MAKES HIM LOOK LIKE AN ASS. I DONT THINK U SHOULD GO OUT WITH HIM BECUASE CHANCES ARE IF HE CHEATED ON HHIS G.F THEN MOST LIKELY HE WILL CHEAT ON U. BUT DONT WORRY UR NOT A SLUT IT WAS AN INNOCENT KISS!

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Niiqquhzdream answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:48 pm:
nO! fLirtinq wiTh a quy doesn`T aT aLL maKe yOu a sLut! It wuz jusT a fLirty mOmenT aNd obviOusLy the truth had tO cOme oUt sOoner oR latEr!! yOu didn`T knO and that waszn`t yOur fauLt!

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:41 pm:
No no no!! You're not a slut by any means hunnie! You said it yourself,you didn't know that he even had a girl! The blame is on him in this situation!He should've been more open and honest with you about his dating status.

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Sherry answered Monday October 18 2004, 10:39 pm:
Nope your not a slut, a slut is someone who does guys she doesnt even know and stuff. So dont worry about it, just dont tell anyone and yeah your friend ray, is a jerk for doing that.

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