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ok i'm 14 and a female. there is this guy in my alegbra class that sits across from me that i like a lot but he doesn't know it. we are always talking and flirting. everyone in that class tells us that we make the perfect couple and that we should go out. today my friend lori asked him that if he that to chose someone in the classroom to go out with who would it be and he said me!! i really like him and i think he likes me too he said that he liked me like a friend but i don't know. so plz help!! (link)
well all the signs lead to him likin u,its the 21st century ask him out.lol.then if he says no then say it was a dare so u dnt feel stupid.lol.but im sure he wnt refuse.
xx


OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
if u dnt want to do it u dnt have to do it.u can have a good tym without doin that.ask ur m8 if she is plannin on doin that at the party.if she says yes say to her that u dnt plan on doin it cos u aint into that kind of thing.but if she asks u to do it dnt give in jus say ud rather not n she shud jus give in.if she needs drink n drugs to have a gd tym let her.but dnt get involved.go to the party n have a gd tym.


ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do? (link)
well ur friend seems to b jealous of ur bfs cos they spend tym with u n i dnt think she wnts to share u.which is kinda sweet but tlk to her n tell her that u dnt appreciate her bein horrible to ur bfs and assure her that friends always cum furst.ask her if she can at leas try n get along wit ur bfs.
xx


I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
i no this mite sound harsh.but ur only 15.u av u hole lyf ahead of u.imagine wot it wud b like wen u r older n all ur m8s r goin to a club and u wanna go but u av to stay at hm n look after ur kid.i no this gurl hu ad a baby at about the same age as u.she doesnt regret it but really really misses all the stuff that she shud b doin.she feels tied down and doesnt have a life of ur own.also imagine that if u n ur bf do break up.im not sayin it wud happen but imagine if it did.u wud b a single mother.also u r at a tym in ur lyf wen u need to b concentratin on ur skool work.im not sayin u shudnt do it but i wud advise u not to.sorry but its mi opinion.


Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year? (link)
of corse its not weird.its great to have someone like that.it means u still feel fresh in ur relationship which is great.wish i had someone like that.ur a lucky gurl.


Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"

Thanks in advance...
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i think u shud tlk to ur friend furst n c if she minds that u like him,becus after all friends are alot mre improtant than bois.if she doesnt mind n make sure she doesnt then go for it,u have nothing to lose.
xxx


Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it. (link)
i would say that u definately are a virgin still if uve done oral sex because u havent actually had sexual intercorse.eventhough it has sex in the title it doesnt mean that uv had sex.a virgin is someone hu hasnt had sexual intercourse.
xxxxx


Me & my friend "Carrie" are really close. Thing is, she's really close to her soon to be step sister (me & her step. are friends, too) I always feel really jealous around them, because they get to hang out every day of the week & they have so many inside jokes & stuff that it makes me really depressed. Like we were shopping the other day & they saw a Barbie at Toys-r-us (don't ask y we were in there.... lol) & they were like "oh this one's me & that one's u!" It was like I wasn't even there! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love both of them, they're my best friends, but my stomach turns whenever they say or do something that I don't get, cuz I'm not close to anyone but them for the most part. I'm so confused (link)
if u really are worried about it,try and talk to them,they probably dont even notice they are doing it.im sure they arent doin it on purpose.if they truly are ur best friends they will include u aswell after they talk,if it does carry on try and hang around with a different group of people i no its hard but u dnt want to feel like the third whell everytime u go out,u wnt to b invovled.
i hope this has helped.
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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend! (link)
no of corse this doesnt make u a slut.the real definition of a slut is if u sleep with loadsa guys and arent goin out with them.
if u didnt no he had a girlfriend u av dun nothing rong.if his gf finds out n she starts to argue with u,then tell her that u didnt no about her.
ur def not a slut and havent dun nethin rong!xx


should I be proud of what i am? (link)
of ocrse u shud b proud of what u r.that is hu u r.if u dnt accept hu u r, u will never be truly happy.if people put u down u no that at least u r bein honest with urslf n no1 can take that away from u.
so hold your head high.
and be proud!




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