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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do?
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Whatever you do do not go out with him. Being rejected isnt as bad as getting dumped. Just tell him that you just want to be friends right now because you dont want to hurt your friendship. If he really does give you the ring tell him you can accept it. Unless he would be really hurt by that. Hope i helped
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turn him down politely.. it's bad enough the guy thinks that you like him than being totally embarassed or humiliated at your party.. so let him down gently and maybe secretly? like in a private place or something.. tell him that you just don't see him in that way and that you're really sorry if it ever seemed like you were sending a signal to him. and hope that you two can get past this and be friends.
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hey first of all..i know its not real..i mean really..but you should tell your friends to quit saying this to him...even though it soounds like the right thing..you shouldnt pitty someone..treat them like an equal...and then tell him that you dont like him like that..and just as a friend...you naw mean?....peace!
--PinoyBoi
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talk to him before ur party and tell ihm how u REALLY feel
michelle
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if you dont like him as a boyfriend then dont go out with him just break it to him easy or you could atleast try it and if you still feel this way then break up with him i dont know what else to say. good luck
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Your friends are doing a very bad job at being a friend.
If you don't want to go out with him, then let him down. Gently.
Say "Look. I'm really sorry, but I am not interested in you in that way." Then sugar-coat it with a generic comment like "I think you're great and I want to be friends.."
Just don't lead him on. He got you a diamond ring. He means business. Don't hurt yourself or him. Just be gentle about it. You don't want to create unnecessary conflict.
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Welcome to my world! LOL. Anyway, I think you should tell him that you like him as JUST A FRIEND, nothing more. It may hurt him, but he'll get hurt even more in the long run if you don't do anything now.
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I have been in the same problem be4...You should tell him be4 your party that you just want to be friends for a awhile and that you guys can still hangout and become real good friends If you need more help on something just e-mail or sumthin k?
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just becuase hes "def. not ur type"oesnt mean u cant give him a chance. but dont use him for material things ex: that ring for ur b-day... u never know if u can have smtn good unless u give it a try i dno maybe if u gave him a chance then u might like him.. but tell ur friends to stop telling him that u like him because thats so0o0o0o0o0o0o0o wrong u just dont do that no matter how bad u feel for sumone. either talk to him in person and tell him that u dont like him but do it in a nice way.. or u should just give him a chance and if it dont work out then break it off with him.
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Before he asks you out, tell him that hes a nice guy, but you dont want to go out with him. Because he doesnt wanna be embarassed at your party. Hope I helped!
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