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All These Guys Asking Me Out!
I know this is long, but PLEASE READ! I need help! Thanks you very much!
Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, Freshman. Last Saturday I went to the Homecoming dance and I danced with this guy... lets call him John, 14. (I knew nothing about him!) We had a great time and he asked me out... I said yes...
Well I went back to school and everyone found out! All the other guys that like me (who are my friends) seemed mad and sad at me. One of of my friends... Dan... asked me to go with him to the dance a few weeks ago, but I didn't because a lot of other guys asked...
I felt bad today because I figured out... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... or so guys liked me all together... I feel so bad... everyone seems mad at me... and I cryed today at lunch in front of all those guys... (they tried to cheer me up)
Also today... one of the guys... Tim... gave me a letter saying he loved me and he cried because I was going out with someone else and I felt so embarrassed... and sad... also Dan told me he loved me yesterday trying to get me back... he wants me back....... (he said, "Will I ever get a chance to go out with you?).... that also made me cry....
I have no idea what to do... Tim wants me to break up with John and Dan wants me, but I'm going to the movies this weekend with John (maybe) and I was planning on kissing him.....
PLEASE someone help me... I'm so confused...
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Wow! This seems dramatic! well if you really like this guy and you think he is the right one for you then stay with him and don't let other people ruin it for you. If you think that there are better guys out there for you then you shouldn't stay with him cuz then you would be hurting all of these peoples feelings for nothing. Its up to you...! I tried the best I could im sry if this isnt good advice! Well I hope it is and I hope everything works out. Good luck! <3Juliet<3
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I seriously doubt 8 guys asked you out...Lets be realistic here. no one can be liked by that many guys...unless you walk around naked that is. muhahahaha. Dont feel bad...you should be flattered that that many people like you...Maybe next year 9 guys will ask you to the dance. My good advice is go with all of them...then they all think their getting some, and no one gets there feelings hurt cause you never said no...Glad I could help.
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Well, ii wouldn't go with `John` because yuu said that yuu don't even know him and yuu most likely know `Dan` and `Tim` better than `John`. Just ask yourself who yuu like the most and go with them. Yuu can't really do anything about who likes yuu, all yuu can do is just figure out who yuu like and see if anything works out with them. Well, good luck. Hope ii helped!
Muahsz . Katie
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Hi, I know how you feel, Yukia. You should go out with bacon. I think you should talk to your friends. Ask teachers. Ask your mom. Ask your neighbor. GOOD LUCK.......^_^
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u need to go out with who u wanna. if this many guys like u then i imagine that one less guy wouldnt make a difference. giv john a chance. jus bc these other guys rlly like u doesnt mean u should giv up ur relationship w/ john. hope i helped ~steph~
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well you should do wat ur heart tells u to do if u really like this john guy go for him and talk to the other guys about it! i hope u had fun at ur homecoming cuz i kno did *im 14 nd im a freshman also* ! so dont break up with john just bcuz of the pressure thats going around u if u really like him u shuld stay with him bt talk to the other guys and just keep it on a frend type of level with them! dont ever let someone tell u who to dump..
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I have never been in this situation before but if I was, I would follow my heart and go out with the guy that I love and care for! I can see that this would be hard for you since like 10 people like you so you have to make a really important decision that will change everything! Hope I helped and I hope everything works out!! :)
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Hey..yeah alot of guys do like you but what you have to look at is who your most comfortable with! You may think you are with all the guys but they are all different and one can have something you like more than the other! Spend time with "John" this weekend and see what happens if you not comfortable with him and you know your better of with Tim or Dan then go with one of them. You shouldn't keep going with John if you don't feel comfortable with him. I know its hard to do but you have to because your better off ending it now (if thats what you do) then doing it later and having him find out that you didn't want to keep going out for a while now! It's your decision hun! Do what you want to do..not what others want! Lemme know what happens..or if you need anything else..lemme know!! Hope I helped! -Kristen
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well i think you should go with ur heart...go out with the person you love and dont let anyone else get in the way...i hope ive helped and i hope everything turns out okay!!
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