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I need advice!!! HELP!
Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship!
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If I were you I would stop writing notes to him and screaming that you love him some guys are really immature like that.. they don't understand how a girl feels and he will get embarrassed and start sayin mean things. I know becuz i've been in the same situation before. Im not saying you can't still like him but you should just keep it to yourself. If he doesn't like you then there are more fish in the sea..I hope I helped! <3Juliet<3
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umm, i would get annoyed with you as well, no offence.
Don't say anything to him. He probably just doesn't feel that way about you, and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying that he doesn't like you. Just don't come on so strong. It might be like a major turn off. Instead, let him come to you.
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how old r u ? if hes sayin hes too young then it may jus b an excuse bc he doesnt like u?? ask him y he doesnt think hes ready... he must have a reason or something... find a few things out and then post another question with more info. hope i helped ~steph~
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Well, don't get TOO pushy, you could ruin a relationship altogether. But if he really means that much to you, wait for him. He's probably just not ready, and you don't want to cause problem by being too up-in-his-face. Just back down a litte... make him want you...
Good luck!
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I think you should just back off a little bit and see how htings go i mean that in a nice way, lol that sounded pretty harsh but just kinda act normal just like friends and see how things go. It seems like he already gets the idea that u like him, so just see wat he does wit it. If he doesn't do n e thing about it just move on to another guy (even though it will b tough) and continue to act like friends
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Aww i`M in this pOsitiOn..jeez i can reLate tO everyOne! lOl..weLL i think yOu shOuld qive him spaCe..that`sz what they respect (bOysz) leT hiM think abOut what he wantsz and maYbe talk to him persOnally abOut how yOu feel. dOn`t let him just tell yOu a lie just tO make yOu feel qOod! qet the trUth...let him knOw yOu really care abOut him and yOu want tO knOw hOw he feelsz...ThE bOy i like is qettinq annOyed w/ mE dOinq the same thinq...like i sed...jusT sPace and tiMe and teLLinq yOur feelinqsz..everythinq shOuld turn ouT ok!
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u cant make urself seem desperate! and dats what ur doing maybe hes afraid of commitment bt u cant just keep naggin on him! let him come to u .. maybe he really likes u too just wont admit it bt u needa stop with the stalking type of stuff ur saying
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first of all u should never say that u love him like that cuz that could scare him away....which that seems what happened....but dont worry about it u can change it... first of all back off for awhile because most people get upset or disapointed wen people dont like them anymore and sumtimes they start to like them as in people always want what they cant have...then just flirt with him a lil and if he flirts back then gradually flirt more....if u feel that ur friendship is going to be runined talk to him about it and if ur too scared too then just be like some daay ur such a great friend or be like ur the bestest friend in the whole world and then he will get the idea that u want to be his friend atleast but if u talk to him about it u can prolli get more answers and see his viewpoint on things....good luck
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Sweetie, guys hate being annoyed! What you did by shouting across the room that you love him made him realize that he might not wanna go out with you! You can't just make him go out with you! To fix this situation, just talk to him and tell him that you are sorry! Hope I helped and good luck :)
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