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i'm a 17 yr old male that has a false reputation of being gay. i'm actually metrosexual and almost all the school assumes i'm gay. how can i show my peers that i'm straight without betraying who i am. (link)
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i have a friend that is this way. he has the same problem, he's not gay, but assumed it by everyone else. if people have a problem with you being a cetain way, that's thier problem, not yours. Your friends are the ones that stick with you, they're the only ones that matter anyway
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ok well i have been "best friends" with this girl since middle of 6th grade. I am now almost half way through my 8th grade year. We are one together. Me and this girl share EVERYTHING together...or so i thought..we used to just talk and talk and talk bout things we needed to get out..now i ask her bout them and shes like cant tell you, top secret. I have also noticed that she doesnt chill with me as much anymore, shes usually with her sister...wat can i do to get my BEST FRIEND back to who she was when i first met her? (link)
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I had a friend who had pretty much this same problem... so here goes:
First of all, maybe you just need a break from each other. Sometimes when you spend SO MUCH time with someone, you kind of get tired of being around them sometimes. She probably just wants to expand her horizons a little bit. Just let her have her space, and eventually, hopefully, she'll realize that you were her true best friend. Don't ignore her, but don't push her either, you get what I'm saying?
*Luck*
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hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx! (link)
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okay, is this guy a senior? Well, if he his, my advice is to not try it. I haven't been in the situation, but a friend of mine was, she was 14 he was 18 and when he graduated and where he was going away to college, well, things just didn't work out. Of course, it probably wouldn't be the same situation for you...
But anyway, if you really like him, I don't see a problem with being with him. *shrugs* Good Luck!
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Ok my X boyfriend has a gf and she a friend of mine, and i thought i really didnt like my X ne more but last night i found out that he gave her a huge hicky, and i got really jelous..i didnt feel like this b4 becuz i thot nothing would ever happen between them becuz he told me like a month ago he would never do that cuz he didnt really like her and he still liked me..but now i dont know what is happening?? some one please help! (link)
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Alrighty... maybe that's what he's trying to do, to make you jealous. Maybe he thinks that if he "moves on" you'll want him back. Anything's possible.
Or, sadly, it could be he's really moving on, but first and foremost, you need to really decide if it's just an old flame, or if you never really got over him as much as you think.
Good Luck!
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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship! (link)
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Well, don't get TOO pushy, you could ruin a relationship altogether. But if he really means that much to you, wait for him. He's probably just not ready, and you don't want to cause problem by being too up-in-his-face. Just back down a litte... make him want you...
Good luck!
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OK here's my story...
I just started high school and I became friends with this really sweet guy. And I like him and I think he likes me too. Well yesterday he told me that him and his gf broke up. And every single day he always hangs out with me at lunch!! And we stand really close hehe. Well he gave this girl a hug the other day n all but I dont know if hes goin out with her - but Ill know hes not if he hangs out with me tomorrow! He always stares/flirts with me! I love him to death! Should I make a move or something?? Don't tell me to ask him if he likes me cause I can't do that!And do you think he might like me too? Please help! Thanks! -Ems- (link)
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Flirting is usually a brilliant sign. if you're too shy, just turn up the heat a little bit, get a little more "close." Make him want you... this way you can lessen the wait AND not have to say anything...
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ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything
thanks a bunch Lisa (link)
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ok lisa, here it is...
I know how you feel... I went through the same shizz with my dad... everyday it's something isn't it? Moving on, I lived like that for eleven years, and I think you should get out of that as soon as possible. no one should have to put up with that kind of emotional damage. Killing yourself should not bean option when it's not you, it's not your fault. I've had to learn that myself throughout the years cause i always blamed myself too...
Wish you the best...
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