Member Since: October 19, 2004
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Last Update: November 9, 2004
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Hey yall im the chick that asked if i should try again with my ex because i was having a lot of dreams and blah blah blah...anyways everyone that answered me back told me to go for it which made me happy but the only thing that bothers me is my friends...they all know the situation (most of them) and they dont like him because i got really depressed over him and stuff and for some reason whenever i talk about him i feel like their like ' omg what a loser she why cant she just forget this guy is it that hard? ' and i feel weird talkin about him and if we did get back together id talk about him a lot cuz he means sooo much to me! and my bffl talks about her bf 24/7 and she has a new one like every week and its so annoying! anyways what do i do since i feel so self concious talkin about him. thanks... (link)
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I dont know the full story. Don't always worry what your friends say. Personally though, I don't think it would work out. I wouldn't put the effort into it because it's highly goin to fail. About your depression... Listen to music to get over it. think of his bad aspects.
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Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :( (link)
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You and him are doomed. You obviously do not respect each other. You will just have to get over it. Harshness from me because cheating isn't right no matter the case and you shouldn't be so easy to forgive. Do it once, do it again!
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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No, You're not done growing yourself. How on earth could you raise a baby? People promise all the time they'll never leave you. You're not ready for a baby. How do you have money anyway? I know you haven't been to college... do u plan on going to college (Not everyone should). You shouldnt care what people think, but you are nt ready for a baby. your like still in high school and haven't had enough experiances.
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~your responce~I don't like having to call the girl all the time. Sometimes a guy will do this to test if you'll call him-seeing if u really care. Get up the guts and call him. If something seems amiss or different, investigate his feelings.
well i have been calling him most of the time because of the whole long distance thing. my cell phone is free minutes after 9 and free weekends. he doesnt have that so he has to pay unless he uses his dads cell phone!so he can still call me but he never does its me always calling him or we are talking on the internet!so now what do u think i should do??? sorry its kind of dumb but i have a hard time trying ti figure this out! (link)
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Don't be sorry, tis a question you need help on, dats all.
There are many possibilities. perhaps he can't use his dad's cell anymore, perhaps he's lost interest, and a variety of other things.
If I were in your situation, and I kinda have been before, I'd switch around and stop calling him. If he ends up calling you, he does have feelings... if you drift apart, it wasn't meant to be.
Hope I can help some.. I'm not sure thats what YOU should do considering We're strangers and I don't know everything about your relationship. Let me know if it helps..
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I am really sick and tired being made fun off when I talk because of my accent. I always feel as if I can stand up for myself, that is until I face the problem. I am cool with most people or so, but i feel as if i need to find this one friend i can share everything with. But there is no one who I truly trust. I try to talk with my mom but she nevers sees my point. Sometimes I am just afraid to tell her somethings because of her way of taking things to seriously. So I try to talk to god it helps but I still feel as if I need let it all out to someone physically. I try to be true to myself but sometimes that gets hard especially being a freshmen. I am afraid to go and find a guy because i don't like rejection. I feel as if I just can not be myself infront of my peers. Even though I am very outgoing and I never get boring.
If anyone has any advice or suggestions on how to feel confident around my peers despite the way I talk, or how to stop myself from always feeling rejected, please say so.
P.S. I tried writing, it doesn't help. (link)
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Ann-I love answering questions with you because we're REAL friends! lol
Anyway, ive gone through that, not specifically with the accent.. I live in the appalachin. Anyway, stop caring so much what others think. You are you and if they dont like you F them! Thats my motto! I was made fun of a lot in Junior high, and as you enter high school and people mature, it goes away. You must be patient for that one true friend. Luckily I found mine and can see myself marrying her. Nonethe less, download ICQ or something and find a good friend who you can talk to. Its easier to write things then to say them. Ive met online friends who I plan on meeting because i love em so much. Guys arn't the most important thing in the world so dont worry too much. Ann is right, people feed of your pain... show them you wont take it. easier said then done I know, but just ACT... ACT like a diva B word... lol you go girl!
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Ok i have a boyfriend and this is a long distance relationship!he lives in iowa and i live in minnesota. so we are about 6 hours away from each other. We resently havent talked for almost two weeks and i know it doesnt seem long. i know its hard for him to get on with sports and homework and stuff and i understand that but i dont know if he doesnt want to talk to me or if he even likes me anymore.i love him so much and he says he loves me too but i just dont know what to do. am i just freaking out for no reason or what? can you please help me i have no clue of what to think or how to talk about this with him. ~Thanks~ (link)
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I don't like having to call the girl all the time. Sometimes a guy will do this to test if you'll call him-seeing if u really care. Get up the guts and call him. If something seems amiss or different, investigate his feelings.
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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year? (link)
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I feel weird for disagreeing. You actually get.. nervous?.... to me that seems to show some insecurity. Crushs arn't forever, usually not more than a couple months, so I do say it's weird. I've never heard of someone like you, so I have no experiance to base off of. I can tell u do have very deep feelings for him and seems vice versa... Have you been hurt badly in a past relationship? SOmetimes that could happen. Sorry if this doesnt help.. I suggest just thinking about this weird thing...
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Two Questions: How can you tell if a guy likes you??
#2- Okay I like this boi Richard. He my friends talk to him alot and they say he says he likes me, but he's shy and he won't tell me, so and I am one of those pplz who are need to be reassured all the time. So it's like my friends are constantly asking him and I know that can push him away. But today my friend Taja asked him if he liked me (and I didn't tell her to) and he said no. And then she was like "Right.....look me in the face and say that" and he couldn't look at her and he didn't say anything....cause he was lying she said. So then I saw him after school today and he had the biggest smile on his face and he was waving at meeh. And also the same morning, he was watching everything I did when I wasn't looking....so how I can tell if he likes me.... (link)
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Tell all your friends to back off. Being a guy who has been in that kind of situation, keep things between you two. Perhaps you could write him a letter. Some guys like that, some dont.
Okay, I'd say he definitely likes you, but you must TALK to him!!!!!!!!! lol Have fun! Best wishes!
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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it. (link)
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I disagree, I think you arn't a virgin. oral SEX... hence the sex. The definition of Virginity is changing especially because of the huge gay population. technically, they're all virgins... so in that way you would be, but in my opinion you arnt.. lol..
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i have a friend that has been my best friend for like my whole life. but lately she has been deserting me and my(and her) other friends and hanging out with people that she either hated or made fin of last year. i have tried to b mad at her, but she just ignores me when i ignore her. what should i do???!!! (link)
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Panther Grl (Hey Ann, its charles) has a point.. or not.
We'd all like it to be that black and white, but there is a possibility she will move on and drift from you. My life long friend, who I now see like a sis, has drifted away a bit. Are these people more popular than you? If so... bring it up and you'll probably have a big fight.
If she ignores you when you are mad at her, that shows she doesn't care for your friendship. Corner her and be like "How dare you ditch me for those fools!" or more calmly "Why are you hanging with people you supposedly hate?"
Good luck!
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Hi there, I'm a 15 year old girl falling for a guy... I met him over the summer on the Internet (we go to the same school but never met before) and I fell for him fast. He's basically all I could ever ask for in a guy. We talk constantly all the time on the Internet, but at school he is very shy around me. I'm not a very shy person, so I try to talk to him as much as possible. On the Internet, we talk like we're best friends. But at school he acts sort of mean to me (I think he is just kidding and just tries to act 'cool' in front of his friends :P) But yeah, I can tell that he never really means it to act that way around me because he always glances at me and smiles :) Is this a sign that he could like me? Please help!!! Thanks so much (link)
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My brilliant answer...
Okay, I have plenty of experiance with the internet. Guys DO act differently in front of their friends, but if he's worth anything you should be able to just simply ask him why yall never talk at school or something.
Kinda calmly complain to him that you're completely different at school. He'll probably end up giving you a lame excuse.. perhaps "Im Busy" "We dont have classes together" or "My friends blah blah"
if you REALLY like this guy (And DO NOT fall too quickly! I know from experiance fallin too fast on the net never ends up good), then just casually talk to him via net.
If you dont like that idea.. at school go up to him and pull him aside or somethin.
Hope it helps!
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