Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:42 pm
Hey sorry its long but I dont kno what to do. I love my boyfriend with all my heart n I could never love anyone this much. He is my whole world, he means everything n more to me. He has cheated on me a few times n I've cheated on him. But anyways this last time he cheated on me, he promised n swore on my life that he would never do it again, n said he loved me more then anything n he couldnt live without me. But now this girl is telling me that he tells her he misses her n wishes he could turn back tha hands of time, but he says tha same thing to me. We've been together 3 years, n we've broken up before n I just cant even live..I cant go on without him, I go crazy, we've been through so much, n I hurt myself whenever we fight...What do I do :(
frenchfries21 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:42 pm: u need to stop cheatin on each other! try to patch up the relationship, maybe jus keep tellin him u love him and he means everything to u. he may start to feel bad about liking other girls. sometimes guys dont rlly mean wht they say he may still cheat on u bc u let it happen b4, u need a bit more help so work on the situation. hope i helped ~steph~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
advice_now_2334 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:34 pm: i went through the same thing. dont blame him if u dont kinow for sure hes sayin it. maybe that girl is just trying to break yall up.. but just try to catch him and if u find out hes telling her that then u should know what to do.. break up with him even tho its hard, [ advice_now_2334's advice column | Ask advice_now_2334 A Question ]
PinoyBoi answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:16 pm: hey...you two need to quit cheating on each other and try to bond a little better..it looks like you to need to be more informed on wut a relationship really is...in the situation that your in...it sounds like theres no trust and you two need to work on that..i mean come on..cheating on each other...now thats really gay..fo real.. i would have lefted after the first time..theres no love in that...you naw mean?..well at least try to get the trust back,,then maybe you two will have a real relationship..the right way..peace
c_assi_e_x_12 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:13 pm: hey i am so sorry about this situation. it looks like both of you guys really messed up. you really shouldn't hurt yourself over him. no guy is worth the damage of your mental health. if i were you i would end the relationship or try to work it out. but if he keeps doing this to you dump the bastard. i know 3 years seems like an eternity but u can do so much better. Good Luck!!
Dangerous_Mind119 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:12 pm: You and him are doomed. You obviously do not respect each other. You will just have to get over it. Harshness from me because cheating isn't right no matter the case and you shouldn't be so easy to forgive. Do it once, do it again! [ Dangerous_Mind119's advice column | Ask Dangerous_Mind119 A Question ]
candigirl08 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:05 pm: to tell u the truth i have been in one of these situations and what i did was let it play out i talked to the girl online and saved the convo and when he came over my house the next day he read it and i knew on his face that he was liening to me so we talked about it and i relize that yeah i did love him but if we are cheatin on each other then it wasn't meant to be.
hopefully u and ur b/f will try to work things out email me to let me know whats goin on [ candigirl08's advice column | Ask candigirl08 A Question ]
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