Ok i have a boyfriend and this is a long distance relationship!he lives in iowa and i live in minnesota. so we are about 6 hours away from each other. We resently havent talked for almost two weeks and i know it doesnt seem long. i know its hard for him to get on with sports and homework and stuff and i understand that but i dont know if he doesnt want to talk to me or if he even likes me anymore.i love him so much and he says he loves me too but i just dont know what to do. am i just freaking out for no reason or what? can you please help me i have no clue of what to think or how to talk about this with him. ~Thanks~
Additional info, added Tuesday October 19 2004, 10:42 pm: ~~i believe in having the guys call me!!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? l3fty14 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 5:02 pm: i think you should try for someone you would be able to see more often. it would be so much more fun for the both of you. think about it, you say you love him, but that could just be becuase you miss him and havent hung out in awhile. he mightve changed and if he really liked you, you would think he would call or something. i bet if you broke up with him, he wouldnt be devastated, you need to move on and he does too. your heart probably wont be broken even though u might think it will.
hope it helps
ami* [ l3fty14's advice column | Ask l3fty14 A Question ]
PinoyBoi answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 11:39 am: hey...everything sounds good..but why not try to call him? he cant be calling you all the time...he could be busy...leave him a message or something..maybe even email him..you know dont let him do all the work...maybe things will be more clear on whats going on....you think? well im out peace!
gemmaholly answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 4:55 am: ok, i am in a similer position to you which is why i have decided to try an help you, my boyfriend lives in the canary islands and i live in scotland so we are about 4 hours away on the plane and for about a week he just stopped texting me, i texted him everyday for about a week and he never texted me back. (he eventually texted me to say sorry he isnt good at texting back) its a horrible feeling i know. you havent said how long you have been going out. if its a while then i think you should just call him and ask straight out. you have a right to know. you arnt going to spend your life waiting for him to call, wondering if he still likes you. if he sounds distant then im afraid you should just leave him find someone who will love you and wont just drop you when he feels like it. no one deserves that. hope this helps good luck :) [ gemmaholly's advice column | Ask gemmaholly A Question ]
Dangerous_Mind119 answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 10:50 pm: I don't like having to call the girl all the time. Sometimes a guy will do this to test if you'll call him-seeing if u really care. Get up the guts and call him. If something seems amiss or different, investigate his feelings. [ Dangerous_Mind119's advice column | Ask Dangerous_Mind119 A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday October 19 2004, 10:40 pm: You guys dont call eachother? Well anyway, just wait it out and if he doesnt try to contact you within a few weeks..I'd be worried. Start IMing his friends and emailing him or emailing his friends. From my personal experience, after one month of not talking to this guy I started asking his friends what was up-and he had decided to stop talking to me. So yeah, good luck. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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