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i have a friend that has been my best friend for like my whole life. but lately she has been deserting me and my(and her) other friends and hanging out with people that she either hated or made fin of last year. i have tried to b mad at her, but she just ignores me when i ignore her. what should i do???!!!
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Well just talk to her and see why she is doing this and if her "new friends" ditch her your not gunna wanna take her back cuz you guys are just like leftovers to her
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Hey Hun!
She might just be trying to "fit in". But she shouldn't ditch her real friends for so-called "popular" people. Talk to her, tell her how you feel! If she's your good friend she will apologize if not, she must not be a very nice friend!
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Well let her have other friends but i think that you should let her know that she is ignoring her true friends....ive been in a situation like that before and me and all our other friends just ignored her and she relized that the people that she had been hanging out with were not her real friends and we were and she missed us dearly...but she was the one running back to so quickly....good luck and i hope that i helped
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Ok... I should know this because I have been in the same situation. Friends do tend to do that... some might not realize it... but I'm guessing that your friend does. I think that yew should just try and talk to her about it. Just be like "I need to know why yew have been ditching me and hanging out with ppl yew either hated or made fun of (either one yew decide to use) last year." But trust me... from my own experiance they always come back to yew! Hope I could help! GoOd LuCk!
xOx Bia!
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Panther Grl (Hey Ann, its charles) has a point.. or not.
We'd all like it to be that black and white, but there is a possibility she will move on and drift from you. My life long friend, who I now see like a sis, has drifted away a bit. Are these people more popular than you? If so... bring it up and you'll probably have a big fight.
If she ignores you when you are mad at her, that shows she doesn't care for your friendship. Corner her and be like "How dare you ditch me for those fools!" or more calmly "Why are you hanging with people you supposedly hate?"
Good luck!
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I think your friend maybe coming very self-consious and is trying to make herself popular. Just don't leave her. She'll realize soon enough that those people really aren't her friends.
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