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gender preferance mistakes


Question Posted Thursday December 9 2004, 10:58 pm

i'm a 17 yr old male that has a false reputation of being gay. i'm actually metrosexual and almost all the school assumes i'm gay. how can i show my peers that i'm straight without betraying who i am.

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MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Saturday December 11 2004, 10:05 pm:
Well, you can't... metrosexuality is a very hard thing to try and come off as straight while doing.

Maybe you can get a girlfriend. But then they may think that you're just bisexual.

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Talkboy2004 answered Saturday December 11 2004, 11:56 am:
Well just go sriaght out and tell them and if they don't listen get a girl friend and be happy and move and and don't listen to them and enjoy ur life while u still got one!

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ne_time_u_need_me answered Saturday December 11 2004, 11:15 am:
well u can ask a girl out and if shesays yes then the school will find out ur not gay and ut dtrait

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Beccers_boo answered Saturday December 11 2004, 5:38 am:
People think im a lesbo but im not. When it comes up just tell peop elthe truth otherwise just act yourself. Screw wut the retards at school think. I mean the people that you should are wut they think are the friends that stick with you.

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gibson123 answered Friday December 10 2004, 7:30 pm:
get a girlfriend or just talk to everyone

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Shaylee answered Friday December 10 2004, 7:09 pm:
Ignore it seriously, if you leave it alone they will get bored of it eventually. You shouldn't have to prove yourself to anyone out there. If your friends can't accept you and not belive you when you say your not gay then they really aren't good friends are they... If they are going to believe rumours about you then they are not worth it, and trying to show them you're not, might actually make it worse as you will be in "denile". Just deny it when you want and laugh when the rumours come around, laughter is the best way because then the people will feel stupid for believing it. Just relax and screw what everyone else thinks

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Friday December 10 2004, 5:41 pm:
Oh God. You'd think that when people get older they become more mature and less dumb. God whoever thinks that needs to think again. I swear the whole "you're gay" thing is SO 5th grade. Honestly. Tell them to grow up. Tell them, "if you want to know if I'm really gay or not try shoving something in my ass and see how I like it, better yet shove something up your ass and I'm sure you'll like it" Flirt with girls more. One of my good friends is metrosexual. You don't have to prove anything to them, let them believe what they want. Be proud of who you are and don't let anyone bring you down. Fuck them. Hope this helped.

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Dixie_Priss_789 answered Friday December 10 2004, 3:23 pm:
Well you can just ask a girl out or something or flirt with them alot I really tried to help but I dont think I did sorry

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jbdreamer answered Friday December 10 2004, 1:26 pm:
You really don't have to prove anything to them, but I understand it is hard in highschool to have people saying things about you that are not true. If someone says something to you, call them on it and state why it is not true. Maybe try talking about girls you like, or at least think are pretty. Don't go and get yourself a gilfriend like others are saying just to prove you are straight, that's just dumb. Be true to yourself.

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Ditsy answered Friday December 10 2004, 1:18 pm:
start hanging out with some guys and find a girl friend

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cUteNsImplE answered Friday December 10 2004, 12:58 pm:
--get a g/f!!!!--duh-but make shure you rlly like this grl-or maybe you just have to accepct the fact that your school isnt fond of you-your 17-your leaving in like a year?-and wut they think shouldnt rlly bother you-as long as you kno"you"-then you will be fine

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Derfel answered Friday December 10 2004, 9:01 am:
Hi,
In life you just have to be yourself, don’t try to be any one else and don’t try to alter or change your image or how others see you. People can either accept and like you for who you are or they can fuck off. Its that simple. If people mistake you for being gay that’s fine. Theirs nothing wrong with being gay. The very worst thing you can do is keep protesting ‘I’m Straight, I’m Straight’. Just get on with your life, be yourself and let others say or think what they like. You know who your friends are, stick with them.
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teenage_wasteland89 answered Friday December 10 2004, 8:50 am:
i have a friend that is this way. he has the same problem, he's not gay, but assumed it by everyone else. if people have a problem with you being a cetain way, that's thier problem, not yours. Your friends are the ones that stick with you, they're the only ones that matter anyway

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tyler666 answered Friday December 10 2004, 1:48 am:
go ask some girl out that everyone thinks is hot and cool! duh man get with it and stop sucking those cocks!!

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Solaris answered Friday December 10 2004, 1:09 am:
I would get a girlfriend. That would be a big sign saying your straight.

Hope I helped! :-)

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