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my friend and i both like the same guy
my friend and i both like the asme guy (my ex bf) and i know i could get him but she'd be devastated.. but i really miss him and i want to be with him but i dont want her to be hurt.. :-/ advice would be nice
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Well, Okay ask yourself this would you wanna* lose a friendship over a guy? Or would you rather have the guy and not a friend. This is a *Quote* that I kinda* think is true. But here it is>> Boyyfriends/Girlfriends come and go. But only friends stay by you till* the end. Just ask yourself what you want most. A friend and just be friends with your Ex Or a boyyfriend and lose a friend? Hope I Helped You Out With That! :) Good Luck! If you want more advice just ask me I most likely will be able to give you some more. :)
Shann
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if you rerally like this guy then talk it out with your friend! if she really doesnt want you to date him then you will have to choose between your bf or this guy. sometimes a guy is not worth loosing your bf. i hope my advice works!
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Remember why you broke up in the first place. Guys come and go...there will be others, I promise =) Personally, I don't think you should jeopardize your friendship for a guy. Chances are, it being that she likes this guy too, you two going out will only create stress between your friend and yourself. If not going out with him simply isn't an option, then might I suggest talking to your friend?
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You broke up for a reason, so don't try to get back with him. Either tell her you don't want her with him or be happy for her if she does go out with him. But don't screw up her chances because you're jealous.
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let her go out with him... and apparently there is a reason why you broke up with him... so keep that in mind and probably try and go for someone else
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Talk to your friend! Ask her if it's alright if you went out with this guy! If she only likes him a little bit, she will get mad or sad at first but she will eventually get over it! You have to know that friends come before guys so make sure you make the right choice and not let this effect your friendship with your friend! This situation that you are in is so tough to be in because it involves two people that you love so much so you have to think about this! Hope I helped! Good luck sweetie :)
-Karen
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talk to your friend and ask her how much he likes your ex and if she would mind if you went back out with him then next time if you 2 break up then she can go out with him if she really likes him still.
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ask your friend if she would care if u went out wit him then find your friend a man
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You have to sit down and think carefully about whether or not this guy is worth risking your friendship over. I know that sounds a little drastic but its effectively what you’d be doing if you decided to get back with him. If your friend means more to you than he does, forget it. Also a point to consider, why did you break up with him in the first place, their must have been a reason it didn’t work out. If you decide you are going to go for it do it very gently with as much tact, decorum and sensativaty as possible. Good luck. Derfel xx
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Well first off, if he is your x she shouldn't even be thinking about going out with him! If I had an x and my friend wanted to go out with him I would be really sad and angry. But if her liking him is okay with you then I guess it's fine. If you REALLY want him back I would sugjest talking to your friend. You could tell her that he is your x and you havent gotten over him. And ask he how she would feel if you put her in this posission and wanted to go out with her x even though she still liked him. She should understand if shes really a friend. Hope everything goes well! xO~Jenna
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