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Best friend(?)
ok well i have been "best friends" with this girl since middle of 6th grade. I am now almost half way through my 8th grade year. We are one together. Me and this girl share EVERYTHING together...or so i thought..we used to just talk and talk and talk bout things we needed to get out..now i ask her bout them and shes like cant tell you, top secret. I have also noticed that she doesnt chill with me as much anymore, shes usually with her sister...wat can i do to get my BEST FRIEND back to who she was when i first met her?
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Your in Jr. High and people start to drift apart and this is the time when you really need to hold on to friendships and let eachother how strong it is and how much u needa hold on to it
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try ralking to her it really works... just like yesterday i was havin problems with ,mi bf and wen i talked to her about it it worked... if shes ur real friend she'll listen and not juss get all mad...
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I had a friend who had pretty much this same problem... so here goes:
First of all, maybe you just need a break from each other. Sometimes when you spend SO MUCH time with someone, you kind of get tired of being around them sometimes. She probably just wants to expand her horizons a little bit. Just let her have her space, and eventually, hopefully, she'll realize that you were her true best friend. Don't ignore her, but don't push her either, you get what I'm saying?
*Luck*
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I totally know what you mean. Me and my best friend shared EVERYTHING for a year. We only hung out with eachother and eventually ate in silence because we had nothing left to talk abuot. I think it is possible that there maybe a very good reason for her secrecy. If she is hanging out with her sister, maybe there are family problems. My best advise, be there for her, and try to keep staying friends. Just remember...To much of a good thing is bad. As for me and my friend. We took a break from eachother. We stayed friends, but kept things low. We are still best friends today.
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