Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2004, 6:44 pm
hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx!
XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:15 pm: I've never been in this situation before. Age doesn't really matter to me unless they are wayyy older! Four years isn't that bad and if you really like someone then you shouldn't care about the age difference. Just make sure he's the right one for you! Well, I hope I helped! <3Juliet<3 [ XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7's advice column | Ask XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:10 pm: Hey hun. Well, ii had the same situation, and ii hated it. The guy that ii went out with was 18 and ii was actually 13 at the time and it was really weird. It felt like he was taking advantage of me and stuff like that. He was also a player so that didn't really help. I don't really think that age matters all that much unless the guy is more than 4 or 5 years older than yuu. Well, if yuu really think yuu like him, just take the chance, otherwise talk to your parents about it and see what they think. Well, good luck.
MissEmmyBoo answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 7:47 pm: I think it'd be cool if ya'll were together- age doesn't really matter. But, I wouldn't have sex with this guy or anything, or let him take advantage of me. -Good Luck!-
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teenage_wasteland89 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 7:39 pm: okay, is this guy a senior? Well, if he his, my advice is to not try it. I haven't been in the situation, but a friend of mine was, she was 14 he was 18 and when he graduated and where he was going away to college, well, things just didn't work out. Of course, it probably wouldn't be the same situation for you...
But anyway, if you really like him, I don't see a problem with being with him. *shrugs* Good Luck! [ teenage_wasteland89's advice column | Ask teenage_wasteland89 A Question ]
PinoyBoi answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 7:35 pm: Hey...well it sounds good but...your 14 and he's 18...you two could get into really big trouble being together...your not even at age of consent which is 16...yea he could go to jail because that's sagitory rape...yea gay huh?...well other than the legal part..In my opinion...I only go out with people 2 years away from my age..but that's just me...and that how I play it safe...but if you go out then..good luck wit dat k.. You naw mean.? And be safe!...peace!
Karen answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 7:27 pm: I think age differences are alright it's just an 18 year old is legal so if you and this guy get caught together just holding hands, he can go to jail because it's considered sajitory rape (sp?) It's alright to like this guy but just watch out because guys that age only want sex from girls your age! That's my opinion! Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Sherry answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 6:58 pm: Age differences are ok i guess, as long as you guys like eachother who cares what people say. But keep in mind, older guys usally go out with 12, 13, 14, and 15 year olds to get sex. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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