Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2004, 6:48 pm
OK here's my story...
I just started high school and I became friends with this really sweet guy. And I like him and I think he likes me too. Well yesterday he told me that him and his gf broke up. And every single day he always hangs out with me at lunch!! And we stand really close hehe. Well he gave this girl a hug the other day n all but I dont know if hes goin out with her - but Ill know hes not if he hangs out with me tomorrow! He always stares/flirts with me! I love him to death! Should I make a move or something?? Don't tell me to ask him if he likes me cause I can't do that!And do you think he might like me too? Please help! Thanks! -Ems-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ICE11BLUE answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:11 pm: It seems like this "really sweet guy" is going through a change in his relationship/friendship/love life: broke up with girlfriend and is now focusing on you. Most human beings; when they move on from something it is to better themselves. He's moving on to bigger and better things so it is very possible he likes you too. Hugging another girl is simply exploring options, or he wants more friends than one other than just that 1 GIRLfriend. I would say don't rush into the "I gotta make a move NOW" decision. Just ride the frienship/relationship out, enjoying every aspect of its' fun like an amusement park ride and he'll pick the right girl when the time is right for him...because HE'S the one that just broke up with someone. It sounds to me like things are on your side! Good luck! [ ICE11BLUE's advice column | Ask ICE11BLUE A Question ]
candigirl08 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:47 pm: well... u should flirt back to know that u are interrested in him and if u guys are hangin out bring up the question and ask him if he is seen anyone and if he says no than be like ok and don't worry about and hugs don't also mean they are goin out that could be his friend.. good luck [ candigirl08's advice column | Ask candigirl08 A Question ]
Xo_UnKnOwN2YoU_oX answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:16 pm: Maybe he likes you but he is too shy to show you, he's probably waiting for the right time to tell you he has feelings for you. But I think you should make your move and show how much you care about him. Hopefully he is not going out with any1 because it seems like he does like you especially if he's flirting but dont be to sure cause most guys just flirt and they dont even know it!?
XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:09 pm: It seems like he likes you to me. I think you should keep hanging out with him and talking to him but if he is also hugging this other girl you should ask him if hes going back out with her. Dont make a move right away.. make sure hes not going out with her first. I hope I helped! Good luck!! <3Juliet<3 [ XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7's advice column | Ask XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 A Question ]
dirkman answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 8:09 pm: My advice is to go for it. Just cause he hugged some other tramp doesnt mean he doesnt like you. Maybe you should wear more revealing clothes. Then I guarantee that he will be all over you. Guys like slutty girls! give it a try. You can count on me. that reminds me of a song...Lean on me, I'll help you carry ooooooooonnn. Thank you...No applause please...I blush easily. Glad I could help. [ dirkman's advice column | Ask dirkman A Question ]
KaylaWayla answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 7:12 pm: Well... it sounds like he obviosly he likes you!! It's okay if he hugs another girl, it really doesn't mean much, just friendship (unless the hug is kind of sexual looking :P) So I say flirt a little more and try to get him to tell you that he likes you and then you tell him how you feel! Hope it works out, good luck! [ KaylaWayla's advice column | Ask KaylaWayla A Question ]
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