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15.f.california
ok see i want to move away from cali and to florida cuz my life here sucks, my mom doesnt care about me and she hurts me physicaly and emotionaly and i have been doing stuff i probly shouldnt have and if i go to florida to live with my aunt i feel this would be better and i would feel like comming sucide every minute or so. but i my mom says she would be happy to get rid of me but she thinks i am doing it cuz i want to get over a hard break up and she has this knew name for me which is coward and like i feel there is nothing for me here but my dog who i love so0o much. my dog has like been the only thing that has loved me ever since i got him. he is quite cute and small but he is the only reasion why i havent commited sucide or have gone to florida uhhh any ideas or advise anyone might want to share i am open to everything
thanks a bunch Lisa
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woah..go see a counselor and tell her what you wrote here. That is is not bout a break up..but the fact that you ar miserable.
As for your mom she is a HUGE loser for telling you that No mother ever say that to a child reardless of what that child has done.
we love you no matter what..unconditonally...
grr your mom needs to go see someone.
Talk to the counselor..and get her to talk to your mom.
if you feel your life will improve with your Aunt..then do this.
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Definitely call your aunt. If she's a nice lady she'll understand, I know my sister would have. Ask her if you could bring her dog, stating how much he means to you. I hope that helped. ^_^
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sucide isnt good. all it does is hurt you. What will your mom do if she found out you tried killing yourself? She'll cry her eyes out. My mom did from when i tried it.take your dog with you to Florida. Live with your Aunt. Get away from your mom. My dad did the same thing to me and i had to move with my mom. But my mom hit me in May and June then gave me a black and blue eye. I moved in with my step dad and didnt talk to her for days. and maybe weeks at a time.
Christine
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I think that if your mom hurts you, then you need to tell someone!! And I would take my dog and move to Florida with my aunt. You shouldn't let your mom or anything else cause you to do bad things! Please don't commit suicide- that isn't an answer. Just tell an adult and/or move to Florida.
*Good Luck Sweetie!!*
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ok lisa, here it is...
I know how you feel... I went through the same shizz with my dad... everyday it's something isn't it? Moving on, I lived like that for eleven years, and I think you should get out of that as soon as possible. no one should have to put up with that kind of emotional damage. Killing yourself should not bean option when it's not you, it's not your fault. I've had to learn that myself throughout the years cause i always blamed myself too...
Wish you the best...
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If your mom is hurting you you physically then you need to get out of there, talk to your aunt, and another adult you trust. Sweets, you shouldn't have to go through that kinda of thing especially at your age. Most people would consider that as running away from your problems but it's not if you are being hurt. Talk to your aunt about letting your dog come, try saving up your money, or if you don't have any, get a job until you can move out and then you don't have to live off your aunt. Just keep your spirits up. If moving out doesn't work, try telling a really good friend and her/his parents about your situation and see if they will let you stay on weekends and some days out of the week,kinda like an O.C. kinda thing. Good luck sweetie, if you need more advice, let me know. xoxo
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You need to move if your being physcially abused. No one should have to deal with shit like that. and im sry if when you move that youd lose the oneyou love but its for your own safty.
Remember Im here if yall need to talk!
XOXOX
Pheobe
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I'm sorry that you have to deal with all that stuff, you shouldnt have to. You should definitly move to florida n live with your aunt if your mom treats you like that. Whatever you do, do not commit suicide (I've had those thoughts too). You need to do whats right, whether your mom likes it or not. Ask your aunt if you can bring your dog with you. If you ever need to talk just leave something in my inbox k. Sorry I couldnt help but goodluck hun :) xOx
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hey lisa my name is brittany.. i want you to know this is just a stage... i wanted to kill myself for about 2 years. Im really sorry to hear that your mother physically abuses you.. thats very wrong and if it werent for that i would tell you to stay where you are but if it is honestly risking your life to be where you are then i am completely on the same track as you.. you should be going to florida. My mom was abused and she finally got out and moved on.. although she still has some mental scars at least she moved on.. i think its time for you to move on too.. and if nothing else bring your dog with you.. i hope everything works out for you much love bye
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