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Ok, i have a friend, ive known her for a long time, but we just started to talk and get to know each other about a month ago. I'm finding a lot i didnt know about here, and im starting to like her as more than a friend. I told her im really starting to fall for her. She says that she dont think we could have a relationship for 2 reaons. 1. Because she likes someone else, and she doesnt want to get with me to just get over that other guy and hurt me in the process. basicly she doesnt want to use me. and 2. We've known each other for such a long time that she hasnt thought of me like that. The problem is, she still heavily flirts with me and acts like she wants to be with me. So do you think i have a chance?
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the biggest chance there is invite her places as friends and keep the subject on her not you after hangingout about 5 times ask her out k
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Hey~There's really nothing you can do about someone who doesn't like you back. You have to kinda deal with it, If she flirts with you still I would ask like well if you don't like me like that then why do you still flirt with me, its like getting mixed signals.
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This girl is just a flirt. I'm sorry but if she has told you that she doesn't like you and she is interested in someone else then chances are that she probably doesn't like you.
-Emily
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Well she has a good point, you're lucky she realized she doesn't want to use you. Sometimes close friends will flirt without liking you that way, but it IS possible for her to have some feelings for you. Just give her time to get over the other guy and then bring it up again later. Just remember there are consequences and risks you have to take for dating your good friends, I learned the hard way :/ Goodluck hun!
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she likes u but let her take her time, after a month if she still is flirting with u ask her out
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Hey ...listen...looks like your falling for your friend...which isn't bad because..you have better relationships that way,..but you two have to come to a mutual agreement about it...talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and wuts going trough your head...then let her have some time to think about it,...then when she gives you an answer...respect it..knowing its best..and try not to let it get in the way of your now good friendship....that's something you want to keep..but if you can make it more then that, that's good too. Just take it slow and wait for her to decide...that way, no matter wut her chioce is...you still have your friendship. You naw mean?
--PinoyBoi
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Honestly, I think she is kind of playing mind games with you, even if she doesnt realize it. Its not her fault, but shes probably just a really flirtatious typa girl..give it more time, get to know her even more as a friend..one thing i would do is not make it obvious that you like her, etc, because if she sees that you dont like her nemore, she will prolly start liking you because she misses the attention, etc..i do think that you have a chance, but i think that everyone always has a chance to get with anybody, u know what i mean? good luck
love kristin
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Yes I think you have a chance...and if she says she doesn't think she can have a relationship with you then why does she flirt with you? She might be saying that because she likes you too but doesn't want to say anything because she still likes the other guy too..she should give you guys a chance and if it doesn't turn out the way you guys want it to atleast you tried. Ask her why if she doesnt think you guys could have a relationship, does she flirt with you...or maybe she doesn't know what she does around you so you could try telling her..or she could just be saying this because if you guys were to go out and break up then she wouldn't want to lose your friendship! Hope I helped sorry if I didn't..let me know how it goes if you want! Good Luck! -Kristen
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