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No offense but EW
Sorry it's long, but I need some help
Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.
There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him
How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!!
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most likely one of the other people who answered has said this. but theres to many to read so ill post this jsut in case. be mean. if your mean to him he wont like you anymore.
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Your not being rude, he's being a STALKER!!! Since you were nice to him in the begining of the school year and that's what made him like you. Then this time don't even feel bad, be a bitch to him. Give him attitude and ignore him...As time goes by, he'll eventually leave you alone....I hope it works and good luck!
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OK well i think you should just talk to him .. be like im really sorry but i have a boy friend and i dont like anyone else but him. Will you please just understand that. I hope this helps you! -Kayla
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well if you want him to leave you alone just tell him to his face and don't be mean, just say" i'm in a searious reltionship and i don't like you that way, i really hope you can understand" you see saying it that way is getting to the point and not comeing off mean at all. I hoped i helped.
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Ok first of all, tell your mom that he is sexually harrasing you. Then, next time he gives you a "signal", tell him you don't like him and to leave you alone.
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WEll i had tha same problem...i dunno if itll work for u but...u can talk to ur guidance counselor n tell him/her that you feel like ur being sexually harrassed they'll listen n theyll find tha best possible way for u to get classes changed or atleast a new seat..if that doesnt work talk to him...tell him that ur in a relationship n that u dont like him come straight out with it or he wont know wut ur talking about n tell him u feel like hes sexually harrassing you...n if things get worse i would talk to your parents or the principal..good luck!
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I say tell it to him calmly because i know he will get the point and if he doesnt which is impossible umm tell your parents and if they say its cute and ur in middle school or something or wutever get a schedule change or different teacher which ever works for you.i hope i helped good luck!
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well thats a little mean but if u really feel that way.. well then i guess ur just gonna have to tell him that he needs to leave you alone or u are gonna have to tell someone about it maybe that will get him off ur back or something. tell u cant be his friend cuz that would be awkward and ur bf would go for that. try to get him to like someone else maybe that will work well good luck
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I have a guy just like that. He's weird, annoying, and stupid and he hits on me and tries to hug me. Several people, like my dad and brother have told him to stop because every time he does he squeezes me, but he won't. If people like someone enough, or want them enough, they don't listen to anyone. Just take your boyfriend to him, and be like "His name here, this is my boyfriend, your boyfriend's name here." and see what happens.
~Laura~
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This is what i think you should do. I think you should go up to him and say that you really dont like him but maybe later on you would( so his feelins dont get hurt).- ryan
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K well there is a guy who dus the same thing to my friend and it really annoys her. He finally asked her out and she sed no cuz she has a bf so his friends kept goin at it so finally my friend just sed look im sorry but I have a bf and i really need u to stop stocking me. If u just say it in a nice way hell get the message, also still be ice and try to avoid him. Good luck!
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omg thats really harsh,yeah i know what you mean i liked this kid but he didnt want to go out with me but im not geeky or overweight or anything so yeah but since this isnt because hes geeky or overweight tell him u have a boyfriend and to leave u alone
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well.. i`d be truthfull!! just tell him to get away from you.. it doesnt take much to simply say 'hey buddie.. i gotta bf so how about u leave me alone!' ... ya know? i dont really think teachers are going to do anything.. they never really do! just tell him that your N0T iNTEREStED!!
hope i helped
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Well if your boyfriend goes to your school, during lunch if he approches you (the guy that likes you) say I'm sorry I can't talk right now, I have to meet my boyfriend for lunch. Kind of emphasize on the boyfriend part. Also if you're alone and he happens to talk to you, just ask him nicely, say can you please leave me alone? I'm not trying to be mean but, I have a boyfriend you need to understand that. I don't want to hurt you though. Just try to be as nice about it as you can. I have pretty much the same problem with this kid in my class... He doesn't speak much English and what's worse is that my boyfriend doesn't go to my school. I've told him once or twice in Spanish that I have a boyfriend and he needs to understand that, but I don't think he even cares. Most likely, this kid is just lonely and needs someone, anyone, especially a pretty girl to talk to. Hope this helped. Good luck.
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that is really nice that you don't want to be mean to him and i think that i know what you can do. Find one of his friends and tell them to tell him that you really like him AS A FRIEND but you have a boyfriend and u really really like your boyfriend as a crush. If it doesn't stop then you might have to talk to him about it. Just tell him that you want to be friends but you really like your boyfriend. if he keeps hitting on you then get someone else involved. He has no right to do that to you. I hope i helped! Let me know what happens!
~Jen
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punch him in the cock
he will get the picture
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