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...sorry it's so long, but could anyone help me?
For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex
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okay ... girls dont cry .. they get even! soo.. i guess your going out with "justin" now, huh? u should just ask him.. be like "umm are we going out or something?" it would be more embaressing to assume something thats not tru then to ask and find out.. right?
hope i helped!
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Okay forget "Tod" that was a pointless part of the story! Anyway, i think this "Justin" kid really does like you. I mean think about it, if he really didnt liek you then why would he tell your sister that your two go out? YuP! And when he told you he doesnt know, hes probably just being a shy guy. Once you guys start going out it most likely wont be like that anymore, which is good. So you should talk to this guy and hook up with him cuz he defiantly likes you.
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hey alex! ok well it was good of you to decide not to go out with "tod" anymore because i dont think its right for you to keep getting hurt. but with the whole "justin" thing, well your friend isnt dating him and tell her that you really like him and you really want to date him and your sorry that you like him but really find out if he likes you and go out with him. see what happens. if your friend is really mad then try to find her another guy that makes her happy. i hope this helps you! -kayla
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Well, I guess the only way to find out is ask him.
Tell him that your confused, that you feel kind of dumb, but you want to know if your actually going out. Chances are, he's confused too, so just talk to him, it'll be easier on the both of you.
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He's just confused because is isn't sure if the fact that you like each other means you are going out or not. Tell him that you don't think you are "officially" going out until he acually asks you out. Then hopefully he will. Or you can just ask him out yourself!
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umm i think that means that is up to you to decide and what your ex bf did that was wrong but "what goes around comes around" and with your friend tal;k to her thats if you don't want to lose her as a friend.GOOD LUCK!
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Alex, if you truley care about your friend you wont pick Justin over her. Trust me is it not worth it. It only ruins friendships and your heart. And you need to confront this Justin guy and tell him you never confermed the fact that you guys were going out. And as hard as it is its "chicks before dicks". Theres plenty of other guys and if your sure you like this one give it time. Good luck Alex!!
xO.Carrie
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he was trying to ask you out without getting turned down or hurt... i think you should talk to your friend maybe she will understand what you have been goin thru and she will tell you to go for him just try that hun hope everything works out
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some guys just think that going out and liking some1 is the same thing. that could be the case for this but who knows? and as for your friend there are petty much 2 choices of what you can do . You can either A)Tell her that you really like him and that you are sorry but since he isn't still going out with her you hope that is doesn't matter, or B)find out what he meant by "i dont know" and/or secretly go out while trying to hide it from her. think about both options, the choice is totally up to you! let me know what happens and I hope I helped!
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First off your friends going to have to deal. Being young and dating is testing basically in my eyes the kind of guy & relationship you wanna be in when you get married. Which means no permanant anything, no bonds tying you guys together forever, etc. It's all about "testing". Well all your trying to do is see how you like the personality of this "Justin". You just want to know how things could work with you guys and you know what you really have feelings for him. A good friend will just understand. You didn't "steal him" from her... they aren't going out. You didn't make him cheat while they were going out. No you didnt. So thats that. And onto what your sister asked him. Wow. Tell him he shouldnt have told your sister you guys are going out without asking you out. Next time you talk to him just say I like you, you like me, lets be a pair. If he was bold enough to tell your sister you guys were going out hes gotta be quite comfortable with actually going out with you.
strange how guys can do some wierdo things....
right?
but we gotta look on the upside, always,always,always!!!!
GL!!
xoxo
and remember, the glass is half FULL
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I think it meens that he dosnt know if you are ready so he dosnt want to say anything stupid.
I really hope this relaton ship works out- from Ryan
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ya thats rele confusing but..if ur friend is a good friend nd u duhn wanna lose her then..u rele should choose her cuz she'll be with u longer nd besides if "justin" cnt make up his mind or confront u then he's juzz being lik a lil boy nd should tell u himself instead of talking 2 ur sister..hope i helped =] -XO0H JENN
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Well.... it sounds like you guy a got hooked on you!!! way ta go! but it also sounds like you might be hurting a close freind. Remember that friends last forever and guyz only last awhile. However. if your friend seems like the type that will forgive you and move on to another guy. get her approval and go for it! but if you know you will seriously be hurting her then think of what matters more. what ever you do. Dont go behind your friends back and not tell her. I did that to my best friend in the 6th grade. And she still hasnt forgiven me. I think thats why we arent best friends any more! and it was a really dumb thing to do! but talk to your friend and remember... "a good friend is like a 4 leaf clover... hard to find, but lucky to have!" and boy is fun to have but only lasts awhile!
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