okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!
jokerzgrl answered Monday October 11 2004, 4:45 pm: That old myth! *lol* I heard that when I was in 6th grade. Its neither true for guys or girls, calm down! Don't beleive everything that you hear.
Mad Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
-LyL-RyAh- answered Monday October 11 2004, 4:08 pm: Babe don't flip out! It's cool, yeah stupid people made that thing up and it means absolutly nothing! I know plenty of girls who have theyre cartilage pierced on the right side, they aren't lesbians they just got there ear pierced woo! I hate when ignorant people make up little rumors and stuff about that! Most likely no one will say anything to you don't worry! Hope I helped!
xostripped answered Sunday October 10 2004, 6:07 pm: Sweetie, quit worrying about other people. If you like it...tell them to **** off. Ignorant people come up with stupid stuff like that out of boredom. Don't sweat it. Just be you. [ xostripped's advice column | Ask xostripped A Question ]
EMiLYELiZABETH answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:20 pm: Hi =)
Getting it on the right side means you wanted it on the right side. My cartlidge is on my left and my nose is on my right.. and I'm totally straight, I love those boys ;)
Maybe she's just jealous of your new piercing? Just remember to clean it like you were told too =)
Paige answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:18 pm: Hey~I have heard that before but if you that worried about it then get the other one done! ~paige~ [ Paige's advice column | Ask Paige A Question ]
WoWsErS123 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:29 pm: haha no thats not true! ive had my done before. if a guy gets one of his ear peirced like left or right not sure tho they are gay. hope i helped! [ WoWsErS123's advice column | Ask WoWsErS123 A Question ]
maria answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:06 pm: i never heard that before, maybe shes just jelous. dont worry about it.... some people i kno they have their right one peirced and they arnt a lesbian. [ maria's advice column | Ask maria A Question ]
blondebombshell33 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:49 am: hEy! yEa.. i Toatlly know what u mean about that because when i got my cartildige pierced... i aksed about 50 people which side to get it on so i'm not known as a lesbian. most of them told me left so i got it done on the left. but then a couple weeks later.... i got my right pierced too! and it looked totally fine! most of my friends have both cartilidges pierced ne ways! so my advice for you... get the right side pierced... or just ignore the gay rumors... i mean who knew that "getting a piercing on a certain side" would mean whether ur straight or not? haha i Hope i helped ya out!
xOxO, aLeX [ blondebombshell33's advice column | Ask blondebombshell33 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:48 am: OH jesus. EVERYONE says that if a guy gets a certain ear pierced it means he's gay blah blah blah. Bullshit. How immature can your friend be?? It's just a freakin piercing. If you say that out loud you notice how stupid it sounds. Oh I got my right ear pierced on my cartlidge so now I'm a lesbian because it's my right ear. No one ever knew which ear meant you were a lesbian/gay or whatever. That's stupid. Don't listen to her. Just make sure you clean the pierced area or you might get an infection! Hope this helped. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
GroverTheStoNer answered Sunday October 10 2004, 10:02 am: I think that it shouldn't matter what ear you get pierced! If you know you are NOT a lesbian, then there is no freaking way anybody should call you that. Tell your friend that you don't appreciate her comment, because you know that you aren't a lesbian and just because you got your right ear pierced, doesn't mean you're a lesbian.
*Randy* [ GroverTheStoNer's advice column | Ask GroverTheStoNer A Question ]
S_C answered Sunday October 10 2004, 9:49 am: I've never heard that for a girl. I've only heard something like that when it comes to guys, and I thought it was the left that made you gay??
Seriously though, it somebody starts to say something, or if you find out your friend, or anybody else starts a rumor, then go up to them say F.U, and punch the crap out of them.
When someone annoys you it takes 42 muscles to frown about it but it only takes 4 muscles to extend your arm and punch the crap out of them.
Hahaha. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
justagirlxo answered Sunday October 10 2004, 2:12 am: HAHAHA. I've NEVER in my life heard that one before.
Soo many of my friends have theirs done, and no one has ever said anything to them about being lesbians. So you definitly do not need to worry about it!
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:33 am: ive never heard that before... i have both of my cartlidges pierced... but i usually just wear an earing in one... its usually the left one... but overall thats lame... a piece of jewelry worn in a certain area cannot determine ur sexual status [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
AquamarineRose answered Sunday October 10 2004, 1:15 am: Shit.I guess I should change mine.Seriously though I didn't choose to get my right cartilage pierced because I am a lesbian I chose it because I like my right ear better at the topthan my left.(I swear to you they are different.)Mainly it's just a guy thing.But hey, maybe for girls it will catch on. Although in your and my case I hope it doesn't. [ AquamarineRose's advice column | Ask AquamarineRose A Question ]
Sweetie2oo4 answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:40 am: ok tell your friend to get her facts straight.
the only person it means anything for is a guy..if they get it pierced on one side, it means they're gay..girls on the other hand, it doesn't matter..mine's pierced on my right side & i have a boyfriend..i'm not les.
xokaylanicoleox answered Sunday October 10 2004, 12:00 am: thats bullshit that only has to do with guys when they get their ears pierced bc some ppl only think its right when girls get it done. dont listen to her i have plenty of friends that have their cartlidge pierced on their right and friends that have it on the left like i do but it doesnt mean anything. dont get paranoid ... your supposed to get it pierced on the ear that you dont sleep on so it doesnt hurt. hope i helped! -kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
Michelley answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:38 pm: I don't think it means you're a lesbian. @ different areas of the world everyone kind of has a different sign, but right ear piercing only means being gay on a guy where I live. And I think pierced cartlidge looks really cute, I'm jealous!! My mom won't let me get it done =( So don't worry about it and if someone says something to you abotu being a lesbian just tell them you're not and a piercing has nothing to do w.sexual preferences...(*you're friend might be jealous of you..or just confused)
WTF answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:36 pm: honestly, thats almost the stupidest lie ive ever heard. it doesnt mean your lesbian. [ WTF's advice column | Ask WTF A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:34 pm: Hey sweetie, don't worry, what your friend told you is a lie. Getting your cartlidge pierced on your right ear doesn't mean that you are gay, well it used to be true a few decades ago. You friend is just jealous that you got yours done and she couldn't!! Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
lauren212 answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:31 pm: its not true on girls on only on guys!! dont worry about it!! if your were myfriend i wouldnt care!!
adviceguy answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:28 pm: The answer to your question is a definite no.
Dressing a certain way or doing something different doesn't mean that you are a lesbian. From what your friend told you I would take her advice in the future with great caution. [ adviceguy's advice column | Ask adviceguy A Question ]
MoonFisher answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:17 pm: That's bullshit and tell your friend she's a retard. There hasn't been a "gay" or "straight" ear thing going on since the 80's. She's just jealous. [ MoonFisher's advice column | Ask MoonFisher A Question ]
Jane answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:12 pm: *That's bullshit. A lot of my friends have their right ones done and they are definately not gay. Don't worry about what she says, she don't know what she's talking about* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
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