okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid?
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday October 11 2004, 8:54 pm: Ooh, if he kinda knows who you are, you can do what I told my friend to do.
Go up to him one day and say something like, "Hey, you know, I think you're a cool guy and I'd like to get to know you a little better. Wanna go for coffee sometime?" (or whatever place you wanna hang at).
It's non-shocking, it's just an invite out for coffee. It's honest, and he's unlikely to turn down an invite when put like that. Just be cool about it. You don't even have to say "Wanna go out for coffee sometime?" you can just suggest "Wanna hang sometime?" That way "go" and "out" won't appear in the same sentence together, which pretty much kills any risk of freaking him out and feeling/looking stupid. =)
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
sHeLLbEe933 answered Monday October 11 2004, 6:33 pm: u could maybe have a friend tht knows him pretty well ask him wut he thinks about u or if tht doesn't work then u could just start talking to him about school or sports or w/e!and just see wut happens..if he doesn't seem interested in u then forget about him and move on to someone else but if he does seem interested in u then u'll be glad tht u did approach him..GoOd LuCk!!!! [ sHeLLbEe933's advice column | Ask sHeLLbEe933 A Question ]
PiEtRuSzEwSkI answered Monday October 11 2004, 6:11 pm: Well hunnay lets see...first of all are you and this guy at least friends, like does he know who you are? If so then just write down your number and say 'you should call me sometime'....or you could always write him a note too, and ask hnim some questions, ya know, like about whatever it is that your little heart desires, but try not to get to personal, but build a trust, once a trust and bodn is built between you to, then maybe you can move on from there, you gotta take it one step at a time, and if you need any more help, let me know!!! Hope i helped!! [ PiEtRuSzEwSkI's advice column | Ask PiEtRuSzEwSkI A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:20 pm: Well if you have classes with him just ask him after class about the homework. Like if you have literature with him say what were we supposed to read? Something like that. Then be like thanks, I'm (name) and he'll most likely introduce himself to you. Remember *** smile *** I tell everyone that. Always smile. Just don't smile all that much because he might think you're a psyco. Hope this helped. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
grape answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:16 pm: well i never been in this type ofsituation at all but u can mostly start a convo wit him by walkin up to him 1 day and be like hi or what ever and try to ask him whats his name and ive seen u arond alot.
XxRockon answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:08 pm: hey im the same situation as u! hehe.. Maybe you can go up to him with a friend and b like "hey i see u around alot, wats ur name?" or "what grade r u in" or accidently bump into him and start a convo. Or you culd ask a friend of his to introduce you both, casually. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Lizzy answered Monday October 11 2004, 5:02 pm: Just go up to him and start talking. Guys like that kinda thing. With me, i just tell a guy i think his eyes are really pretty, sometimes i'll tell a guy with pretty eyes that anyways, but if you tell him that that'll start some sort of conversation without feeling stupid
Lizzy [ Lizzy's advice column | Ask Lizzy A Question ]
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