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Real Brother v. Step brother
okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now.
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Your (real) brother has serious problems and he needs help. Everybody needs someone to be nice to them, I wouldn't feel guilty hanging around your step-brother because he's nice to you, that's great that he is! But seriously get your brother some help.
~Laura~
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I NO HOW U FEEL CUS MI BRO HITS AND PUNCHES ME ALL THE TIME...well ne ways i would say tht u just need to tell ure step-bro tht u appreciate him being rilly nice to u all the time but also tell him tht he can be mean to u too at times and argue too because we nvr rilly learn ne thing in life if we don't experience it.
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you have no reason to feel bad or any sort of guilt!!! be thankful that you have a family member(even if its not by blood) that is there for you and cares for you!! and sometimes the people who we think are the closest to us treat us worse then we would ever expect!!! get to know your step brother better!! then maybe you won't feel so weird around him and you two can probally become really close!!!
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You deserve to be around a nice older brother step or not. Sounds like your real older brother has a lot of issues he needs to work through and you should talk to your parents.
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Hey~First of all you shouln't feel bad about being around someone being nice, you should feel uncomfortable around your brother. I would tell someone about you brother, you could tell a parent or even your step-brother! ~paige~
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i think first of all you should get your real brother some help if he abuses you phicly that could be serious but i don't understand why u can't talk to him do u have more than friend feelings for him? take it slow around him if it helps make a list of things hes done good and things hes done wrong maybe it will make you feel better
good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113
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