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okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now. (link)
You deserve to be around a nice older brother step or not. Sounds like your real older brother has a lot of issues he needs to work through and you should talk to your parents.


My friend died her hair BLACK see i think it looks good but she doesn't..so does neone know how to get hair dye outta hair like..everyday home uses and stuff..like someone told us dishsoap..that didnt work to well but if neone knows then ples give me advice to help my friend thanx (link)
I am a cosmetologist. You have a few choices. Use Tide detregent, this will fade it. Malibu Treatment, fade it. The only way to get her natural color back is go to a salon and get it stripped and then color it her natural color again.


Hello everyone who is reading this and thinking about giving me advice. All I want to know is, will I ever find love? I am so tired of being all alone, I thought that after a couple bad relationships and getting to college would change my love life. Well it hasn't, so I am asking for any advice anybody as on meeting guys and not trying to be shy around them. I just want to meet my soul mate and I need help on how to do this! (link)
Yes you will find true love. Stop thinking about it. enjoy your friends. Enjoy school. Be social.


I just found out from my friends that I am going to Homecoming with them, which is next saturday! my family's budgit is very low and we can't afford to buy a brand new dress. I have my old dress from last years 8th grade dance. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas to make it look different. Here is a picture of the dress:
http://beallsflorida.com/page?name=process-page-call&page=page-style&styleid=47261

I appretiate any ideas!
Thanks!

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Hey, A great way to change would be just adding some extra black sheer fabric at the bottom to give it a little more movement and fullnes. Rhinestones and glitter are fun, but not if this dance is really formal. Try a store like Deb where you can get cute dresses cheaper also. Lastly doing your hair in a fun spiky updo and some simple but nice make up will change. Spikey heeled shoes also?


how often should u dye ur roots if u dye ur hair like blonde and ur hair is naturally black:? (link)
Okay, now just to update you so you don't think I'm telling you lies, I just graduated from cosmetology school so I know what I'm talking about. When you're hair is that dark you should never dye your hhair from a box. You shouldn't ever, but especially taking black hair to a blonde. If you do dye it with box color make sure not to let it overlap onto your already blonde hair. If you do go to a salon and get it done, which I suggest, when there is 1/2'' to an 1'' go have them reouch your regrowth only, make sure they do no overlap unless it is fading. If you are low on funds I suggest trying a cosmetology school where they charge you half price and a watched over by instructors it will save you money. And don't worry they make you take a bunch of tests and stuff before they let you work on customers.


Ok, I"m in a guitar Club at my school, and for a Spring Rally, we're going to Play I belive a country sound called,"When you say nothing at all" I'm not sure who sings it, it was origionally sung by a guy, but they remade it recently and it was by a girl,if you could give me the name of either of them, it would be a GREAT favor. I bleive it's 2 people singing it? or somthing? I think one of them is Cross or somthing? please help, I was assigned to find the lyrics and Chords, if you could give me the singers name, it would do much for me, thanks

*I rate 5's for all attempts*


~Signed~
Tone Deff (link)
Allison Cross or Crose


one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help (link)
Dear WaF,
Although this friend of yours may seem like he is the happiest guy around those people are sometimes the ones who are most unhappy. Cutting is a cry for help. Even if this cut is in fact old, the reason he is showing you is because he needs help and he trusts you enough to help him. He may also cut himself more recently in places you can not so easily see. Talk to him and then talk to his parents, your parents or someone who you trust and you feel can help both of you. If you feel there is no one you trust, then you two should talk together about it and how big of a problem it is and who you can turn to.


Sorry its so long.. but u need to hear the WHOLE situation to understand..

OK.. My coach and I used to get along really well. I play setter and I have for almost 4 seasons. Well.. im now on the high school JV team.. and theres another setter. OK fine. Well.. coach just GAVE her the position of starting (she didnt have to work for it). I asked him why.. and he said its because i dont work hard enough in practice. I argued with him about it for a few minutes and he just wouldnt listen to me. He said I need to work hard to earn my position. But in practice, I go out there and work my ass off. And this other chik just goofs off and stuff. None of our hitters like her.. and coach dont realize im the better setter (sounds conceided(sp?) but thats what all the hitters tell me)

I guess what im tryin to get at.. What can I do to prove to my coach that I really am workin my ass off out there to earn my spot in a game? And to prove that im the better setter on the team (link)
Dear Volleyball,
It's unforunate that your coach does not see that you are working so hard out there on the court during pratice. What you will need to do is sit down with him again, and ask what it is exactly that he feels you are not working on hard enough and what you can do to change. Tell him volleyball really is a passion for you and you would like to work on becoming a starting setter. If that doesn't work. He may very well be playing favorites.




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