See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help.
KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Saturday November 13 2004, 10:25 am: well if ur sister ends up datin this guy then dont be upset. there are tons of guys out there. u should try to talk 2 ur friend about everything. tell her ur sister is takin over and u really need someone there 4 u. hope i helped ya! [ KiLLeROnDaCourT's advice column | Ask KiLLeROnDaCourT A Question ]
Meetmyyimshi13 answered Friday November 12 2004, 11:49 pm: omg that is excatly what happened to me with this guy ecxpect instead of my sister it was my friend i love him more than anything but i guess this is not the best thing for me to give you advice on cause well i am always sad and cry almost everyday but i don't stop there i also have this self mutilation problem and the thing that really helps me is talkin to my friends about it people that won't judge me and will just be there to listen friends can help with any problem [ Meetmyyimshi13's advice column | Ask Meetmyyimshi13 A Question ]
Witty answered Friday November 12 2004, 9:40 pm: I think you and your sister should talk about it. No matter what happens, you'll still find yourself a little sad about the matter but, see if your sister really likes him and if there is a possible chance of them being together, unfortunately, you shouldn't stand in the way. Hopefully things will work out and you'll meet a new guy and he'll like u and you'll like him. [ Witty's advice column | Ask Witty A Question ]
Sherry answered Friday November 12 2004, 7:21 pm: First of all, thanks for saving me from boredom!
Your situation is pretty tough. If me and my sister both liked someone, and he liked me and wanted to go out with me. I'd say no cuz I dont want my sister getting hurt. But I guess your sister doesnt care..But try talking to your sister and talking to her about how it'll really hurt you if she goes out with this guy. If she gets mad then leave it alone. You will find soo many new guys..your young (i think) and you have lots of times to meet better guys. Just think about people in your classes, or anything that you might like. It takes time to move on but eventually, you'll hate him and love this guy named Johnny Appleseed. Then Johnny wont be hott anymore so you'll like Billy Joe Bob. So yeah, lots of guys..you shouldent worry about this one! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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