Question Posted Monday September 27 2004, 10:59 pm
um hello. bit curious about something. here goes. sometimes (im a 13 yr old guy) when im around certain ppl, i get really calm, my heart beat steddies, and things are warm and relaxing. it doesnt matter if its around girls or guys, its equal for both. does this happen to others? its been a wide span of ppl its happened to. from the mentally ill to complete strangers. im not bisexual or anything, im only attracted to girls i think guys are the filthiest of beings to stench the earth. anyway, does this happen to others? it doesnt really bother me, im just dreadfully curious.
xbella_47 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 8:08 pm: no. you`re crazy. ha ha no i`m kidding, yeah that happen`s to mE (13.f) but i`m just reaLLy laid back sO it`s nothing bad .. trust me * [ xbella_47's advice column | Ask xbella_47 A Question ]
DrEaMsd0ComEtRu answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 9:49 am: hayy im a 13/f and i feel that way around every 1 and its probably becuase they dont make u feel uncomfrotable or liek ur an outcast...dont worry theres nothing wrong with that it just meens u are a relaxed person..xoxo hope i helped tessa [ DrEaMsd0ComEtRu's advice column | Ask DrEaMsd0ComEtRu A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 5:30 am: You're just a person who is sensitive to other people. It's normal.
I don't know why these people calm you - they could remind you of others in your life, or just emit an aura/personality of strength and shelter.
It's no weirder to experience this than to, say, dislike someone on first sight. It's called a Geshtalt impression in psychology - did you know all of your emotions about a person are set within the first four minutes of meeting them? It takes a lot of time and effort to change your first impressions of someone.
Witty answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 2:28 am: To be honest, I don't really know what to say. Can't say that's happend to me before. [ Witty's advice column | Ask Witty A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:30 pm: i have something similar though it is very rare for it to happen with guys. it also works the other way as well where my heart beat speeds up and i get this sort of knot in my throught. works kind of like a judge of charecter actualy. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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