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confusedteen


Question Posted Monday September 27 2004, 11:27 pm

Hey, this guy told me how much he really liked me the other day and I turned him down because I wanted to be single but now he is goin out with my best friend and I changed my mind I think I'm jealous, but what should I do

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Kandi answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 8:51 pm:
well not to be rude or anything but there is nothin really you can do...dont try ta get with him now bc u will just mess up things big time with your friend..the best thing that you should do is just try and find someone else or just stay single...thats reallii all you can do

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Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:56 pm:
the only reason your jealous is because hes going out with your bestfriend, it happens to all of us. You'd start goin out with him and you'd quickly stop liking him. I promise its only b/c your JEALOUS. You should just drop it. Plus if he'll change from liking you to going out with your best friend that fast hes really not that sincere.... you dont need them kinda people in your life :-/

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Jane answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:16 pm:
*He's just trying to make you jealous! Once he finds out you like him, he will dump you bff for you. But if I were you I'd wait a couple weeks to go back out with him and ask permission from your friend!*

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AskMegan answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 3:04 pm:
You most likely are jealous, because he jumped from you to your best friend. You should stay clear of him, because you don't want to truin ties with your bestfriend. Remember, no boyfriend or date is worth that of a friend. You should stay away from him, and don't let him know that you like him.

The old saying 'boyfriend stealer" is a bad thing. You could really hurt your friend and make her feel bad if you tell her you like this guy. She might feel bad that he jumped from you to her. She also might accuse you of jealosly, and you two could have a huge fight, which you don't want. Best thing to do, is just forget about him and get someone that isn't with your best friend.

Plus, this guy is probably a loser anyways. He obviosly didn't like you that much, if he can just forget about you and go to your best friend.
What a loser, seriosly.

Forget about this sleez-bag and get a real man, not an immature boy.

Have a good one~!~

AskMegan

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advice_giver_pimp answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 12:22 pm:
not tryin to sound mean but u had ur chance and u didnt take it. and like that other advice giver said u didnt want to be single i think thats bull shit. Any wayz jus forget about him if u try and take him from ur friend that will be worse then u not having him

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 11:37 am:
I dont think it's jealousy its just that he told you he liked you yet he goes out with your best friend? i think its more of confusion with him... i'd asked him about it and be like if you liked me then what made your decision change so quickly

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evilgogeta answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 2:54 am:
There isn't anything you can do. You missed the window on this one i'm afraid.

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Witty answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 2:22 am:
There's nothing you really can do unless you are the type of person who backstabs friends.

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rosebud_01 answered Tuesday September 28 2004, 1:17 am:
You did have your chance and you turned him down. If he really did mean what he said then why is he with your best friend. Besides did your best friend know that you really liked that guy because if she did then why did she get together with him if she knew how you felt. One other thing if she didn't know how you felt then I think that you should tell her now so that way at least she knows where she stands with you and how you feel about them being together.But like I said you shouldn't have turned him down in the first place if you really liked him.

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advicegiver789 answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:56 pm:
ok i dont want to sound rude but the whole i wanna be single thing i think is a bubbleing pot of shit and its a bad turn down for a guy its the worst thing that could happen to a guy its liek he starts thinkin that somthins wrong with him and may affect future realtionships yea im surprised he is even goiing out with somone yea but back to the point i think ur jealous too but u only want wut u cant have and now u cant have him my advice to you is to wait till they brake up and ask him out then cuz untill than ur pretty much screwed

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o0Tina0o answered Monday September 27 2004, 11:50 pm:
Well well well ... lets c hurr... mmmmm very confusin.. you think if he liked you alot he would of waited and stayed around and not of gone for your friend? but.. if he drumps her 4 u.. she is gonna get mad. @ u and than u guys are gonna get in a fight, and nothin is gonna be good, and u guys willbe risking a friendship over a guy,

best friend Vs. Guy

its like u have 2 choose one... or let it be as it is...

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