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People are always saying not to do anything until you're totally and fully ready. Well, my boyfriend is ready to finger me and I want him to and i want to be ready but like..how can i become ready?
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♥ umm just be ready.. let him d0 it if y0u want
♥ well usually guys w0uld tell y0u s0 they c0uld have s0mething t0 clean it up with.. they d0nt want it t0 get everywhere.. unless the girl is gr0ss and wants it in her m0uth..
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start with the mind. =)
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You don't sound like you are mentaly ready to do it yet. When you are you will know, you can't make yourself become ready, its either you are or you aren't. Some guys will tell the girl and some won't it just depends on the guy and it depends on if you want to move or not when he is going to cum, those type of things you can't really plan, well you can but, its just personal preference and also depends on the situation cause you might not be able to move.
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There is really no way of "becoming ready" physically, But mentally, you need to psych yourself up to what comes out of sexual encounters. There is a 50/50 chance that the relationship will not last forever, so make sure your making sure you want to do sexual things with him, I know I regret doing things with boys when I wasnt ready.
And an answer to your additional info is, guys usually do not tell you, unless you tell them to.. it depends on the girl wether you want him to on you or not. I know I do not prefer it, so you have to think how you would like it.
Good Luck and Lots of love in your sexual future
College Girl NH
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okabout the h/j i dont really ever give those BUT if you dont want it on you then get a paper towel and tell him that you are going to celan up after wards...if you do then just go with it.you can normaly tell cause they move alot and you will feel it before it cums.ok abot the fingering ..... i was only going out ith my boyfriend for 1 1/2 monts before we really got into that..i have to ay is that i mae him wait soo i can see how he was. you just need to know if you want it then do it but if not then dont. its black and white. ut i you want to ak anythiing else jut ak me ten
*love britty*
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Well for the h/j part. I was kind of scared the first time i did it so like as a joke id be like "what percentage are you at" so hed tell me and usually if you dont want it on you roll up your seleves and go under a blanket. if he doesnt mind. And to be ready just make sure u really like him. hope i helped
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uhhh the fact you have to ask us how to get ready just proves you wont be ready for a while. its not like some sort of magical thing you can teach yourself to be. you just have to be it. and obviously you're not really mentally there yet. so just wait it out with him. if he's a real b/f he'd understand.
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First of all. You cant become ready. You just know. When you feel comfortable with it. Im guessing you too are like 13 or 12 or 5 or whatever. So dont get pregnant when your 15 like everyone else.
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really what has become of these girls of America
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in my opinon u can't just become ready if u are ready you'll know
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There is no way to really "become" ready. If you're comfortable with it, and he is too than do it. If you don't think you are, then don't. And it all depends on the girl and the guy. Do you want your boyfriend to cum on your hand? If not tell him, so he can tell you before he cums. If you don't mind then just let him go ahead and do it.
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well my friend did it and she says it hurts like hell!!!!!!!!! so b prepared 4 it
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