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ok i know this was stupid of me but i told my boyfriend that i have had sex with 3 guys but ive really only had sex with 1 and it was a long time ago and he was really small so im still really tight down there. im afraid hes going to be disappointed because im really tight and hes gonna have to go slow at first. what should i do? or will he care that im tight? please help
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he w0nt care.. the tighter the better.. n0t many guys like it when girls are l0ose.. it just gr0sses them 0ut.. yuck♥
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He won't be disapointed about it at all. He will probably notice that it is a little tight to begin with but after that he won't. As far as doing anything, don't do anything just take it as it comes and don't worry about being tight and just enjoy it.
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He will perobely like it.. i dont know, Dont worry about it
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honestly, most guys like it when girls are tight-it's more pleasurable for them...unless you're too tight that he can't go in. if you're scared that it'll hurt and you want him to go slow, you can either just tell him the truth, or just tell him to go slow at first, so it lasts longer, or so it feels better, or whatever excuse you can think of. if you tell him the truth, he might be disappointed that you lied, but i don't htink he'll be disappointed that you're tight.
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Be happy your tight, guys like that.
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Well some guys like it tight.. and even if you did do three guys you could still be really tight.. but maybe be truth ful with this guy and tell him the truth bout the whole thing.. and why would you lie bout something like that...? that makes you look kinda bad..Much luv
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most guys like it when your tight. just finger yourself to get looser
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I agree that if you can't tell him the truth, you shouldn't be having sex with him.
However, for future reference, different guys like different things. I don't happen to have a penis, but I've discussed such things with people who quite a bit. Most of them agree that the extra time it takes to get a tight chick warmed up and stretched out is more than worth it in the extra sensation. I know that many women (myself included) will do Kegel exercises to keep ourselves tight (and to perform interesting tricks, but that's probably more than you want to know right now).
For your own pleasure, don't let him rush things. You should be dripping - literally - before he tries to enter you with his penis. Have him use his fingers to stretch you out a bit. The more turned on you are, the easier it will be for him to get inside.
Foreplay is both fun and useful. Use it to everyone's advantage. :)
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First of all, what is the point of lying to your boyfriend. If you can't trust eachother, then the relationship is doomed. And if he can't except you for who you are, then he is not worth keeping around. Asking a question like this makes it sound as though you don't know eachother well enough to be sleeping together.
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