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Confusing guys...
I like this guy Dylan. N i finally told him and it turns out he likes me! Wahoo right? Wrong. He doesn't date. He got hurt really bad in a past relationship and gave dating up. He doesn't like talking about it, so I dont push. We are really good friends but I can't help but want it to be me. He says if he would take it back he would, but he would have to change who he is and that would kill him. <Not good. He's also done stupid stuff n he's trying to fix it. N he won't try dating agian. Even though he's all like "I love you, but I don't want me to get hurt. Or worse yet you to get hurt."
He's hurting me more this way...
How can i get over him? Even possible?
Oh. Im 14 female.
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It is possible to get over him just going to take some time. How to do that? Um, it's kind of hard to do if you keep talking to him. I would say just try to focus your interest with another guy. It might be hard but if it's the case you have to think of Dylan as just a good friend.
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Crushes are hard. You have to be fair, and give him space. I know it's hurting you, it's probably hurting him more knowing that he doesn't want to take the risk of being with you and getting hurt. You'll get over him. One day you'll see Mr. Wonderful and think "Dylan who?"
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if you just please explain this better i would help you.
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i hate to say it. but love is really hard to get over. just keep talking to him and see what happens. if he said he loves you he'll come around. the only way i can think of to get over somebody is to find someone else. but even then you probubly will always love him. if you have anymore questions just ask me and i'll try my best to help you. hope everything works out!
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Tell him that if he really loved you them he would give you a chanca and tell him that you are willing to get hurt to take a chance. Also tell him that he is just hurting you by not tryuing and tell him that what happened in the past is the past. and he needs to forgive and forget. b/c if he dosent he is only hurting himself and will be lonley for ever.. -Steven
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