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OK, here's how it happened
I was at a friends party. We started playing 7 Minutes In Heaven. Well, my best friends BF, who we'll call Phil, was there. Well, I had been crushing on Phil for a long time and they dared me to make-out with him for 7 mins. Well, I made a dumb move. I did it. Well, later, when my BFF, who we'll cal Diane, Diane asked Phil back out earlier that night and he said yes. Well Phil told Diane he ust kissed me on the cheek so she wouldnt get mad cause he reaaaallly likes me. Well, she broke ^ with him. she was gonna sk him back out but he spilled: EVERYTHING Well, she called me, totally pissed. And I have tried everything apologizing trying to talk to he. She hates me. WHAT DO I DO?! ~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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Alyssa.. Just say you didnt know they were going out and you didnt know and you wouldnt intentionally hurt her.-trix
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Well its good that you had no idea that they were going bak out...cuz if u did tht would have been pretty messed up. Just keep apologizing and tell her that u had no idea and that it was a dare and it meant nothing to u. Hopefully she will forgive you. Just keep trying!
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if she was your best friend you wouldnt have done that..its pretty messed up on your part..she will be mad at you for awhile ..you shouldnt ever let a guy come between you and your friends she has a right to be mad...all you have to do is sit there and hope for her to forgive you..do things for her that will make her smile..you will have to try and hope for the best...you did mess up kissin HER boifriend
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Justina
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Try to explain to her that it was harmless fun. You said he likes you and she likes him? You guys can't control what other people feel. If she was your friend she'd wish you two luck if you two were to date. I've been through this before.
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i would hate you to you slut
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i think that is SUCH a stupid game. guys are really dumb and everyone should get over them, you sound pretty young, like, middle school or early h.s. and i think boys are just another thing to worry about in this world. ask him out! lol im here to chat, IM (aim) me anytime takemeaway032
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you like him..he likes you. shes out of the triangle. its not your fault. and its not your fault that you two made out, playing a game, while they were broken up. if shes really your bestfriend, shell understand and forgive you and everything will get back to as normal as it can get with this wierd love thing goin on. just try talking to her about it, and dont forget to mention that she cant just blame it on you, and that you two are best friends. dont let him mess shit up, cause he wont last anyway.
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oH this is a toughy. Try to explain to her how much you really liked him. Ask for hur forgiveness and if she still says no...give hur some time hopefully she'll come to hur senses and realize how sorry you really are.
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Well what you should do is tell her that Phil didn't tell you that they were going out. Also you should make phil tell her that too.
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Try explaining to her that it was a game... it was just 7 minuets in heaven. Sure you sort of like him, but you'd rather have her friendship!!! Just remember... girls are forever, guys are whatever, when worse comes to worst by girls come first!!!
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I don't think there is much you can do in this situation. Did you know that she had asked him out earlier that day? How long were they "broken up" for before this party? You hurt your friend by doing what you did. It's hard for anyone to get over something like that. My only suggestion is to continue to try to talk to her. Hopefully, she's the better person and can get over it.
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