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I cried this morning, and I never cry. I haven`t cried in months so this was somewhat of a big deal and I almost killed myself but my friend calmed me down. I cut myself, I did it not because I wanted to hurt myself or was upset for any good reason just because I could, it's dumb I know. My mother hates me, like seriously unconditionally hates me and tries to ruin my life by thinking anything that makes me a bit happy is stupid or along the lines of stupidity. I can`t talk to her that`ll just make things worse, and I don`t want to bring my dad into this because he tells her everything. Why can`t my life be better?! What did I do?! xxOo
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You didnt do anything.........its nothing you did or anybody else did...its all your mom....your home situation doesnt sound very good...so what you should do is have sleepovers w/ ur friends alot...like after skool go to a friends house....rarely ever stay home...get active and dont worry about your mom or what shes doing or anything...do things that make you happy...also please never cut yourself again...ive had friends in the past who have...and nothing is ever worth cutting yourself...youve proved to yourself that you can so now, put it behind you...work on things that make you happy and things you love...I hope everything works out for the best..if u need to talk or have another question just leave it in my inbox...
~Katie Leigh~
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Awwwww honey you didnt anything to your mom for her to be like that towards you.. Dont hate yourself just cause your mom acts like that towards you.. if you ever need somebody to talk to jus hit me up.. ill listen to you and help the best way i can.. and please dont hurrt yourself anymore.. you deserve to be happy weather your mom likes it or not.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ MUCH LOVE!!
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what makes your mom hate you so much??well idk but don't kill yourself cause i was already tramatized when my best friend told me she wanted to die and has tried to kill herself quite a few times. hunny cutting isn't good i tried it just last night and i told myself i would never! do it again. it was on my leg and the big stink is that i have a volleyball game and people will see it cause my shorts are really short. i guess i'm trying to say that if you don't want to get caught don't do it cause there are tons of ways to get caught trust me. i know how u feel. there are plenty of times when i wanna hurt myself or even kill myself because people tell me they hate me and that so do other people. even my own family. so if you need help you can leave something in my inbox or i/m me on
xl n kristy s lo. good luck!! kristy
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Well my friend Christiana is going through hell also. She cut herself and me and her best friend got mad at her and were crying. My life in a way right now is hell. My boyfriend moved away and yes I have been crying. But really in time it will get better. Maybe not right away. Maybe not soon enough. But in time, it will. Just anytime your Mom says somethings stupid say some stuff that she likes is stupid too. I hope life gets better for you.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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calm down my dear. deep breaths. i know exactly where you're coming from. let me guess, you can't control anything. you can't control your mom, you can't control what others think, you can't really control school, so what can you control? right, pain. when you cut it's something that you feel. you become so numb to the rest of the world because it is so out of control that you find out that it feels good to feel something-- even if it is pain. it's not the answer. it gets you nothing but shrinks and funny looks in the hallway. its not worth it. talk to someone, even if it's your best friend. call her up and just have a good cry. just let it out. cry into your pillow. scream. just let it all out and don't hold anything back. draw pictures, write notes in a journal. just have a hissy fit. an hour or 2 later, you'll feel better. you'll feel like you're not holding anything in, and is if your soul poured out with your tears. then, when you're clear-headed and "empty" you can think. the world is not out to get you, and your mom isnt either. she's probly just worried somethigns gonna happen. that's no consolation, i know. my moms overprotective, im 16 years old and cant go to the local mall because it's "in the city". like what the fck my friends have been going since they were 12 years old. so whatever, i've learned to deal with it and that theres only a little more time until i am out of the house and at college. hang in there, doll. you're not alone. if you need someone to talk to, i/m me. if you want my screenname just ask me a question on my column only. good luck-- you'll be fine. .:.curbside prophet.:.
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Okay babe, first off you need to realize that other people go through the same thing. I have never been through this because my parents love me and I don't think that I could even imagine how hard it would be.
Believe it or not, from experincing this, it will make you be able to help other in that same situation and you'll be very independent. Now I know that you can't make your mom love you, the choice is hers. So, you will have to support yourself and love yourself. You probably don't realize this just yet, but they do love you. Parents can't "hate" their children, maybe they'll say they hate you and act like they do, but inside they do love you.
Cutting won't solve the problem, it'll just give you another reason to cover yourself up. I know you know this already, but think about it more. What does cutting really do? Does it help you answer your problem? No. It confuses me why people do that. But it's up to you. I wish you'd stop but I'm not going to tell you that you have to. It's your life. I didn't mean for that to sound harsh or mean. So, please don't take it personally. I wouldn't be saying that if I didn't care. But I do care. =D
Here's some of my ideas, maybe you should consider your friends to be your family. That's what they are there for. I think you'll have to learn how to accept the fact that your mom and dad won't really support your dcisions. It's hard, I understand that. But as you said, you've tried talking in the past and that makes it worse. Keep talking to them about it if you want. Maybe in time they'll listen. But if they don't listen you have to keep believing in yourself. You can't waste your life. Do what you want to do and enjoy it. Did I mention that when you are eighteen you can move out. =D I don't know how far off that is for you but until then try to make the best of things.
Get involved in things at school, hang out with your friends if your parents let you. Walking helps. It'll clear your mind, and that's always a good thing to do. You deserve happiness, everyone does. And if anyone ever puts anything that you're serious about down, prove them wrong! Seriously, you have more options as you get older and you'll be able to decide what you want to do. Always here if you need me!
Love,
Mandee
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Its not worth killing yourself. Somepeople say if you do you go strait to he**. You probably have a good life but not relize it. As for your mom. The heck with her. She has no right to make you feel that disapointed that you need to kill yourself. Try to ignore her and just dont tell her anything. She will come to you. If you were going to kill your self that would be pretty stupid becuase god put all of us here for a reason. Dont beat your self up over these things. When you get that mad clear your mind and just relax. ----ryan---
Feel better.
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If your mom tries to bring you down by stuff that makes you happy just ignore her. There's no need to bring your dad in this either. You could also sometimes ask her why she doesnt want you to be happy?.
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Good Luck!
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Talk to your school guidence consuler. That's why they are there. Ask them if they have a way to get your family into consuling. Also, if your mom hits you immedatly call the cops. For your cutting try putting a rumber band around your wrist and when you want to cut snap the ruber band to your wrist. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck!
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