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I light-skinned with long black hair. I'm bout 5'1 and as of 2005 i'm 16!!!!!
E-mail: tish_aka_shorty_by_nature@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mebane, North Carolina
Age: 16
AIM: xxeachickxx
Yahoo: tish_aka_shorty_by_nature
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 17
Last Update: January 24, 2006
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hey everyone.. umm well around here like everybody has a myspace in the towns around here, well high school students. so i started talking to this boy who lives the town right next to mine.. and my friend met him one time through her boyfriend so i knew he was like "real". so he asked me to go to some concert with him the other night and i was like yeah most likely but last night we hungout and my friend came. he picked us up at my house and he was very nice, opened the door then afetr the movie he open the car door and stuff it was nice. so when i got home i signed online and just went upstairs for a minute and when i came back down he IMed me already and even though i talked to him online he left me a message on myspace that said "hey i had a good time tonite...your really pretty...is there a possiblilty for a second "date"(if u even considered this one date)? " so im hoping eevrythings good. he was really shy except when id actually start talking and didnt try and hold my hand during the movie or anything ( which is fine by me ) but do u think the signs are well?
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Hey...if you really like him or you feel a connection i say go for it. SInce you know he's real and you see how he was on the first date i say go ahead and have a second date with him. Then after the second date you can see how he really is. Hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!


A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...=( please help!! (link)
I agree with Berri also maybe ask your friend how she would feel if yall dated and go from there. Cuz you don't wanna lose your friendship with her over some guy!! Hope i helped!!!


ok i am in alice in wonderland twisted and we have to do research on a specific scene. I have to do the flower scene and the flowers. But all i can find is information on the book. Which is good but i need more information on how they like relate to alice and stuff. Does anyone have any good ideas? please help! i rate highly! (link)
Hey try looking on the internet and see what you can find on there. Hope i helped!!!


well, some of my friends arent exactly as pretty as me or as skinny. alot have trouble with guys. and alot of guys like me... my friends sometimes say things to me like "everyone likes you and ive never even had a boyfriend. you've had like a million. im never gonna find anyone!" i dont know what to say to them! i can tell them that they will find someone someday but that doesnt make them feel much better. sometimes they'll say: "im so fat. i wish i was skinny like you" and ill say your not fat! and they'll say "well i dont look like you do i?" i feel so bad! what do i say??

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Hey gurl i know how you feel because i go through the same thing with two of my friends they are both big and no guy will go near them. But i tell them that they are beautiful and that its not you its the guys and i tell them that if a guy can't love oyu for the way you are then you don't need them and its good that they stay away!!! WHen they say "I'm so fat i wish i was skinny like you" I normally say its not so fun being little because its hard to find clothes that fit and its hard because people are forever saying that i'm anorexic so try sayin that and see what happens. Hope i helped.


Where can I get really really really really really really really really inexpensive clothes that are cute?Inexpensice ones like jeans that are 10 bucks but not thrift store type places.
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Depends on where you live i really can't help. But if you live in like north carolina in the alamance county area there's a place called City TRends and they have some cute outfits and stuff that are cheap i got an outfit in there for like $10. See if your area has a city trends or something like it. Hope i helped.


Where can I get really really really really really really really really inexpensive clothes that are cute?Inexpensice ones like jeans that are 10 bucks but not thrift store type places.
Please help i rate high! (link)
Depends on where you live i really can't help. But if you live in like north carolina in the alamance county area there's a place called City TRends and they have some cute outfits and stuff that are cheap i got an outfit in there for like $10. See if your area has a city trends or something like it. Hope i helped.


Where can I get really really really really really really really really inexpensive clothes that are cute?Inexpensice ones like jeans that are 10 bucks but not thrift store type places.
Please help i rate high! (link)
Depends on where you live i really can't help. But if you live in like north carolina in the alamance county area there's a place called City TRends and they have some cute outfits and stuff that are cheap i got an outfit in there for like $10. See if your area has a city trends or something like it. Hope i helped.


Where can I get really really really really really really really really inexpensive clothes that are cute?Inexpensice ones like jeans that are 10 bucks but not thrift store type places.
Please help i rate high! (link)
Depends on where you live i really can't help. But if you live in like north carolina in the alamance county area there's a place called City TRends and they have some cute outfits and stuff that are cheap i got an outfit in there for like $10. See if your area has a city trends or something like it. Hope i helped.


My guy friend is seriously considering breaking up with his girlfriend. I really like him & he told my friend he would date me if he broke up with his girlfriend. The only problem is that my best friend likes me too. What should I do?

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First you should talk to your best friend and see how they feel if you don't want to ask then get another firend of yours to ask. IF your best friend only see you as a friend only see you as a friend then go for it with your guy friend. Since you guys already like each other any way. Hope i helped.


i have dark skin (not brown, but VERY VERY dark white, do you get it? And i dont like it, when i tan it gets uneven and ugly, and i cant leave it lik this..should i use some oundation or try to get it lighter (if thats possible) or get a proffesional tan or what am i to do? (link)
Hey you should find the nearest dermatologist (skin doctor) nearyou and let him or her tell you what to do. Maybe they have something you could put on your skin or something. Hope i helped.


I LOVE A GUY .HE KNOWS THAT I LOVE HIM.I THINK HE LOVES ME TOO.BUT I M NOT SURE.I M GOING TO LEAVE HIS CITY BY 10th OF JULY N MAY NEVER MEET HIM AGAIN.HOW DO I MAKE HIM EXPRESS HIS LOVE TO ME?PLEASE HELP ME.HOW CAN I WIN HIS HEART?M A GIRL OF 18 YRS. N HE IS 21. (link)
Hey gurl i think since you are leaving you should tell him how you feel that way if he feels the same way then yall could spend the days untill july 10th together. That way at least you could express your love to him while he's there. But yea just tell him how oyu feel then ask him how he feels. Cuz if you don't you may never know whether he liked you or not.


(im 14 and a girl, btw) Ive written to you before. like 8 months ago and im doubting youll remember my problem, so ill sum it up. I went out with a boy(clay) last summer through october, i had a hard time getting over him and this girl always tried to get me out of his life because she still liked him, then we broke up, she was happy, i was sad, and it took me like a month to get over him... (basically; its THE cliche)...anyways, now its like a year later and i have a new boyfriend of a month. were sepreated for the summer and we dont have any ways of talking. i cant call him because it costs like a dollar a minute, and he cant go online because hes at his summer house and theres no computer there; and then hes going to camp, and he doesnt get email, and i dont have his qddress there! so we wont be able to talk til september énd when i get back home! meanwhile though i keep remembering how i felt about clay. because im in paris now, and he told me he liked me in paris; and then he asked me out in israel; and im going there tomorrow! and i know everything will remind me of him...this stinks for me because now ive started to think well what if eli ( my current bf) doesnt like me? what if he just wants action? i mean, he hasnt made an attempt to talk to me; so maybe he doesnt really care about me and he just wants action...ya know? ahh please help me! you helped me SOO much last time... (link)
Hey gurl listen don't think that Eli doesn't like you just because he hasn't made an effort to talk. Maybe there really is no communication where he is. If he had your address then maybe he could send a letter, but see you in paris so there is no way to get a letter to you. Or it would take a while to get to you. And what if Eli is thinking the same thing, so don't worry bout that. ANd of course Paris is going to remind you of Clay yall have so many memories there so its going to be a little hard but just think about all the things Eli and you do or want to do in Paris or any where else and you should be fine. Hope i helped!!!!!


okay here i'll start from the beginning..me and this one guy named austin went out at the beginning of the school year in like october and then i broke up with him but then i've liked him ever since i just can't get over him..and then i went out with this other guy travis to see if i could get over austin..but i liked travis a lot so i tried to get over austin but i can't..so then i broke up with travis and i STILL really really like austin and austin likes me to and so does travis and i told travis that i only wanted a break and MAYBE we could get back together later..but austin is gonna ask me out and i mean i want to go out with him but i'm not 100% sure because every time i go out with him i feel like we seem like we're going out when we're just friends but he's moving to a different school district but i'd still get to see him cause of gymnastics..but travis i think would get mad to..but here i want to go out with him..but i'm not 100% sure on it..what should i do?? help me please!! i'll rate high i promise! (link)
hey girl first i don't care bout the ratings and i hope i can help. If both you and austin still have feelings for each other i say go for it. And you feeling like yall are just friends. You could feel so close to him that you could see him as you see your best friend. But that could only make your relationship better. And travis try explaining the whole story to him. Let him know how you used to feel about austin and he should understand. Hope i helped.


ok theres this guy in myschool .. we both always had a thing for each other the whole year .. well the last day of school was the other day nd on the last day he kissed me on the forhead nd told me he loved me nd he was gunna miss me sfm ( were going to diff schools next year ) nd he constantly tells me he loves me nd that im his world .. and yeah i like him but hes a dick to some of my friends should i still like him? (link)
I agree with younggrandma. I also say go for it. And if he loves you like he says he does then when you ask him to be nice to your friends then he shouldn't have a problem with it. If he doesn't then i have to say dump him. Because if he cause you to lose your firends then if something happen to yall and yall break up then you won't have him or your friends.


okay whenever i give my bf oral i can taste the cum but its not like alot to swallow or anything .. is this because im not doing it long enough for him to cum? please help (link)
All guys are differnet it may take a couple of min. or a hour to make a guy cum. Its not the matter of whether you doing right or not its the matter of who the guy is and how his body works.


hey my boyfriend currently dumped me because he felt bad because he didn't have anytime 2 hang out w/ me because of his job and stuff. So he dumped me and i found someone else and i didn't tell him that i was going out w/ some else. And hes like im guna quit my job 4 u and stuff like that cause my boss is being a jerk and i was like well i already have a boyfriend. Then he was like serious and he said fine ill find someone else. See the problem is is that we still both have feelings 4 each other but he is starting 2 get 2 know another girl and he says it might be a while before him and i actually can go out again! He says he needs 2 get 2 know me better and we might go out sooner. Everytime i try asking him something online or anything he answers quickly but then signs off. What should i do i still like him but how can i get him away from this other girl? Any advice would help! thx (link)
I see it like this when he broke up with you the first time he was doing for you. And i think it hurt his feelings when he found out u was seeing someone. SO right now i think either he's really in a good relationship with this girl or he staying with her to hurt you the way he feels you hurt him. And if he keeps signing off then send him an email and if he doesn't read it then his lost. Or write him a letter or something. If he doesn't wanna respond then maybe its time to move on or maybe yall should try being friends.


this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug? (link)
Maybe you should try letting the dude know how you feel or find out how he feels about you.Then that way if he is not interested you can see him as the friend he is and move on 2 the next boy in your life. Or you should get a close friend of his to find out how he really feels about you and go from there. As for getting a hug just ask for one. The least he can say is no.




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