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Rebound girl
A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...=( please help!!
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Listen here.First of all how stupid r you to go after him when he just broke up with his girlfriend. Sencond, you should have known he was up to somethin when he decided to ask u out. Plus,he probably tryin to get you in the bed. This is what you do.Dump his funky, sorry behind!
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Seems to like he's using you to make your friend mad..
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I'll put it straight: I doubt someone would get over someone that quickly (2 days)
I hate to break it to you, but it really does sound to me like you are just on the rebound. A clear indicator of this is the fact that he was dumped - it wasn't the other way round. So he was probably mad and figured that he'd try and make her jealous by dating her friend. I'm sorry you had to get caught up in it. And I could always be wrong; but this is just how it seems to be (and this does happen quite often unfortunately)
Of course, your best bet is to ask him straight out "why are you acting different with me?" and see what he says. Hopefully, if he's a genuine guy he'll fess up on how he's truly feeling.
All the best.
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I agree with Berri also maybe ask your friend how she would feel if yall dated and go from there. Cuz you don't wanna lose your friendship with her over some guy!! Hope i helped!!!
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Sorry to tell you this,but he's using you to get your friend back.Or that's what it seems like to me
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You very well may be a rebound girl. He might be trying to make your friend jealous. If there's every any doubt about something in a relationship, the two people need to have a talk ASAP. Tell him exactly what you're worried about and what's been bothering you. Tell him that you really like him, but if he isn't really in it for you, then you don't want to be his girlfriend. And if he says he really does like you, and you believe that he's telling the truth, then the two of you can try to work things out and make the relationship go smoothly. Maybe he's trying not to make any of the mistakes he made with your friend because he doesn't want to get dumped again. Just tell him you'd like him to act the way he did around your friend.
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