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Long distance love..
(im 14 and a girl, btw) Ive written to you before. like 8 months ago and im doubting youll remember my problem, so ill sum it up. I went out with a boy(clay) last summer through october, i had a hard time getting over him and this girl always tried to get me out of his life because she still liked him, then we broke up, she was happy, i was sad, and it took me like a month to get over him... (basically; its THE cliche)...anyways, now its like a year later and i have a new boyfriend of a month. were sepreated for the summer and we dont have any ways of talking. i cant call him because it costs like a dollar a minute, and he cant go online because hes at his summer house and theres no computer there; and then hes going to camp, and he doesnt get email, and i dont have his qddress there! so we wont be able to talk til september énd when i get back home! meanwhile though i keep remembering how i felt about clay. because im in paris now, and he told me he liked me in paris; and then he asked me out in israel; and im going there tomorrow! and i know everything will remind me of him...this stinks for me because now ive started to think well what if eli ( my current bf) doesnt like me? what if he just wants action? i mean, he hasnt made an attempt to talk to me; so maybe he doesnt really care about me and he just wants action...ya know? ahh please help me! you helped me SOO much last time...
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Keep yourself occupied in Israel-- so occupied, you won't even have time to think of him. Nights are the worst, but if it all works out to plan, you'll be too tired to think of Clay.
About Eli. You're seperated for the summer, because you have no way of contacting each other. If he really just wanted action, and couldn't see you for three months, why would he still be with you now? Why would he wait all that time to be with you if he was just after one thing?
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Hey gurl listen don't think that Eli doesn't like you just because he hasn't made an effort to talk. Maybe there really is no communication where he is. If he had your address then maybe he could send a letter, but see you in paris so there is no way to get a letter to you. Or it would take a while to get to you. And what if Eli is thinking the same thing, so don't worry bout that. ANd of course Paris is going to remind you of Clay yall have so many memories there so its going to be a little hard but just think about all the things Eli and you do or want to do in Paris or any where else and you should be fine. Hope i helped!!!!!
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