hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!!
twistedteen25 answered Friday July 1 2005, 1:27 pm: you should tell him to back off if he doesn't and still bugs you tell a parent or someone you trust that may sound childish but do it , it could help you tons
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CheerGirlee123 answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:45 pm: well stalking is against the law if you didnt know that i recomend telling a parent which i did when this weird kid kept calling and texting me. and also if it kreeps you out thatmuch then tell the police and get a restraining order [ CheerGirlee123's advice column | Ask CheerGirlee123 A Question ]
karenR answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:08 am: First of all tell your parents. Tell your friends too and tell them not to leave you alone when you go out. Let this guy know that you will call the police if he doesn't back off and stop following you everywhere. Don't be nice about it.
Get mean! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
blondebaby1016 answered Thursday June 30 2005, 11:30 pm: Talk to him, tell him you feel like you're being stalked, so he knows you're uncomfortable. If that does not get him to back off, tell him you're going to tell someone, or call the cops. [ blondebaby1016's advice column | Ask blondebaby1016 A Question ]
mushoku answered Thursday June 30 2005, 2:02 pm: I think you should talk to him. Ask him why he's following you, what it is he wants, et cetera.
If you feel the need to get him to stop via more forcable methods, talk to your parents. If they won't talk to his, you talk to his. If neither of both of your parents care, and you've already talked with him, find a police officer, get him/her to listen to you, and explain your situation, what you've already done, and what you want. [ mushoku's advice column | Ask mushoku A Question ]
ForNowAtLeast answered Thursday June 30 2005, 11:42 am: I think you should see what he wants! Or if you dont want to see, just ignore him because he wants a reaction. Everyone does everything because they want a reaction [ex. talking about something, they want someone to talk back to them] If hes an older person, i think you need to contact someone such as a parent who can take care of him. [ ForNowAtLeast's advice column | Ask ForNowAtLeast A Question ]
xxurockxx answered Thursday June 30 2005, 10:32 am: tell him that you will press charges for stalking if he doesnt leave you alone. if he doesnt leave you alone, file a police report. the first one probably wont do anything but if he keeps doing it you can file another one and the cops will do something about it. [ xxurockxx's advice column | Ask xxurockxx A Question ]
Little_silent_voices answered Thursday June 30 2005, 10:14 am: This may not be alot of help! but I think maybe you should get a bf.. or atleast "get with" as in be together with another guy.. then you can be like please leave me alone im with someone! lol..
Thats all I can think of.. Sorry i couldnt help more
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