Member Since: February 3, 2005
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Last Update: February 3, 2005
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i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her. (link)
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she must like this guy as well.
You dont have a monopoly on blokes - you cant just 'shotgun' them.
she got him first cause you pussyfooted around and didnt make a move - or else he likes her and not you.
Youve no right to be mad.
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I am a thirteen year old female and I don't want to live my life anymore. My ex boyfriend and ex best friend are almost going out even though they know I still have feelings for him. My sister has ADHD so my parents have to give her alot of special attention and there are about three family arguments a day. I gave up self harm about a month and a half ago but now I have started again because I am so depressed. I make constant threats of suicide and I suffer from very low self confidence. I am rarely happy and when I am it is short lived. I desperately want my ex boyfriend back and keep thinking that if only I still had him then I would be happy. I have a male friend who I talk to about almost everything and he is very supportive but he can't help me. What should I do? (link)
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You may think that this boy is important, or that your best friend was, but in the long run they really dont matter.
I find that kids your age place far too much importance on their social lives as if it meant everything in the world.
In three, four years youll be hanging round with new people and new boyfriends, and things will seem a lot better.
Remember everyone has relationship problems at some time in their life. Chances are youll experience a lot worse than this in later years, but youll be better mentally equipped to deal with it.
Try and understand that your parents are going through a hard time too.
Cutting yourself is just attention seeking and stupid, dont do it. It also makes people want to avoid you.
Try and see a councillor if you can.
In my life if something bad happen, I just ignore it and keep laughing.
It keeps me happy!
Now get off your ass and go get a better bloke than that guy.
Wallowing in self pity never achieves anything.
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Ok so I've been best friends with this guy now for about 2 1/2 years.. We usually tell each other everything so when I had a crush on him about a year ago I told him.. he didn't like me that way..
Fast forward: He currently likes a few girls, all of whom think he's sweet but not "boyfriend material" and are my friends. This kinda hurts cause I thought I was over him but obviously not. He thinks no girl will ever like him, blah blah, and I want to let him know I do, but I'm afraid of rejection again.. what should I do? Should I tell him or just keep being a friend?
sorry this was so long.. (link)
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Tell him "thats not true cause I used to like you".
If you want him to like you youve gotta seem like a trophy to be won, not a consolation prize for not getting your mates.
If he thinks he cant have you, itll make him want you all the more trust me.
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okay my best friend has this guy friend and i like him and she likes him...err i really dont kno what to do...i mean i dont think she will get mad at me if i asked him out...even though deep down inside i think that she will...what should i do should i ask him out or should i not...im so confused. (link)
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girls are dicks to each other. Youll end up hating each other over another bloke if not this one. so you may well.
hell probably blow you out for being too fat anyway
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i've been having a really tough time with gettig over my ex boyfriend because he was everything to me- but i Need to move on- no question about it. SO theres this new guy and i like him and he likes me a lot too. But somtimes he's shy and i want him to like open up. The reason for this is because he's never had like a realy gf! which is different, but its not like he's a geek or anything, he could've gotten plenty of girls but he's never really liked a girl that much.. he's kinda picky i guess. So should i go and try this guy out? cuz he's so fun to be around.. maybe it will make me stop thinking about my ex. What about this shy thing tho? Help please =D thanks so much- i'll rate (link)
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why not? Youve nothing to lose
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I know this sounds totally gross but since I'm from Sicily Italy and i have really dark brown hair. There is almost black hair on my arms and I dont like to wear t-shirts cuz it shows off my arms and im afraid someone might say something. What can I do? (link)
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Wax lady wax.
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I think I have depression, I've got almost all the symptoms on this website, and I've felt like this for about 5 months. I don't know how to tell my mum; she's so old fashioned and she thinks that young people can't get depression, and I'm 14 so she won't believe me. I started crying this morning for a stupid reason but I was feeling depressed, and she just said, "oh, here we go." She won't believe me if I tell her. I don't know who to tell, my friends are immature and won't understand - or they'll laugh about it, 'cos I'm good at hiding how I feel and I smile when I'm feeling bad so no-one notices. I can't make a doctors appointment myself, and I don't know how to get a counsellor, and anyway I also think I've got social anxiety so I wouldn't be able to say anything for them to help. How can I get rid of this depression because lately I've been considering suicide and looking on the net for ways to go about it. Thanks xo (link)
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Stop being a pussy.
Slap your self in the face
Go visit Iraq for a week, then youll realise your problems are a load self absorbed bull****!
stop feeling sorry for yourself. its pathetic, everyone has problems not just you
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I have intense hair flaking. The skin on my scalp is coming off and causing dandriff. Its really gross and a few people asked me if I had lice and I said no its just hairspray but the fact is I dont even use hairspray.. This is really gross and Im constantly worrying about it so I dont know what I should do.. (link)
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You might have a condition called Seriosus.
See a doctor
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Okay! My I have two best friends. One is a gurl named Nichole who is more like my sister and then there is my best friend Dylan. He and I have been best friends for about a year and half now. For about a year I have been growing feelings for him and he fell in love with me. But about a month ago he and I got in this really big fight and he said some really mean things about me, so ever since that fight my best friend nichole has hated his guts, but he wants to go out with me. She thinks that he doesn’t deserve me because of the way he treated me and I kind of think that but at the same time I think that everyone deserves a chance. We dated from jan 26- jan 29 then I broke up with him…but that’s a different story why I did that.. Now he wants to get back with me, but I don’t know if I should give him a second chance. My best friend nichole is pretty much right, like he treats me good but at the same time he is like kind of controlling. Like he wants me not to drink with my guy friends, only him bc he doesn’t trust me when im drunk, yet I have never given him a reason not to trust me. What do I do? Give him a second chance or not? I don’t think I should have to change anything about myself, bc he said that he loves everything about me. What do I do? Please help me. I rate 5’s!
*sami
ps..my best friend nichole told me that if I date him she is going to be very disspointed in me and I don’t want that.
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he sounds like an insecure loser. Forget him
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im 13/f my bestfriend is 13/m and i like him so much!! he knows i like him but he wont ask me out! no one will ask me out because im "uglY" but the guys ive been out with say im beautiful but i dont think so anymore. my self esteem went down, i use to think i was so pretty but the guy i like dosnt like me! but i look alot older than what i am so i get all the older guys but i dont want older guys because they want more from me! how do i get him 2 like me? i know thats a stupid question but ive known him 4ever and ive liked him forever and he use 2 like me 2
please help
thanks (link)
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go to the gym
learn to use makeup - it can do amazing things.
If that doesnt work - get him drunk.
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