Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 10:37 am
okay my best friend has this guy friend and i like him and she likes him...err i really dont kno what to do...i mean i dont think she will get mad at me if i asked him out...even though deep down inside i think that she will...what should i do should i ask him out or should i not...im so confused.
lollypopgurl769 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 9:17 pm: " chicks over dicks." don't even think about it, lol. i learned the hard way! if you know she'll be hurt, then be a true friend and at least wait till she gets over him. yeah, she might not show it that shez pissed if you DO go out with him, but deep inside she will. you can also try talking to her abnd asking her. have a heart to heart convo and ask her. but think about it, how much do you like him? is it worth it all?worth risking the relationship? guys come and go ... well hope I somewhat helpead. Good luck with everything & tell me how it goes! [ lollypopgurl769's advice column | Ask lollypopgurl769 A Question ]
sarah0308 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 6:53 pm: i think you should think about your friend first. its not easy to make new best friends (trust me on this one..i havent had a best friend in about 4-5 years) and guys will come and go. always remember, chicks before dicks!
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xoxhayley answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:18 pm: best friends come way before boyfriends... i've made this mistake :x . But this doesnt mean you can't be with him. All you have to do is talk to you friend about it. Tell her how you feel and everything and he honest. You really need to let her know how you fele becausae you wouldnt want to mess up anything with your Best Frined! Then after you talk to her, then talk to this guy and go from there! tell the guy also that you talked to your friend before so he isnt maybe weirded out and that you also just want him to know what you've done.. Hope i helped good luck [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:03 pm: Talk to your best friend first and ask her if it's alight for you to ask him out. If she likes him and you ask him out, how do you think she will feel? She probably will get mad like anyone else would but only for a while. I know this is a tough situation but think about your friend first because there will be other times where you will find a guy. Hope I helped :)
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LostAngel answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 2:31 pm: ok here...boyfriends come and go....but friends always last longer then boyfriends...if ur a good friend to her then u should make the call over what to do...i rather lose a boy then my best friend
Asc answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 12:18 pm: Ask your friend whether she'd mind you asking him out of if she has plans for him. [ Asc's advice column | Ask Asc A Question ]
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