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Should I pursue?
ha ha ha...ok... Well now, there was this one guy who i went out with for like 5 months. let's call him josh*. And we broke up before winter break. And he claims to still like me and he knows i still like him... but everyone guy around me keeps telling me that he's just using me and stuff, when i ask josh about it, he goes don't belive them. And we both trust each other and everything, that's why we never got into a fight while we were going out. But here's my problem. One of my friends asked him if he thought we should just go back out again. And she said he told her that he's not sure, and he doesn't have time for a GF right now. And i totally understand because he's really athletic and he has bball and baseball and track's about to start soon. So i mean i don't kno what to do. Sometimes we go to the mvoies on the weekend, and we kinda make out a little. so i mean. i don't know whether i should still pursue to like him and everything if it's going to go no where. So? wat do u think i should do? find someone else? or go after him? oh and there's really no one else i like at this school. Oh and josh always says he likes no one but me still, and he doesn't but i really wanna go back out and i just don't know what to do!..help me.
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hmm... well if u can't get rid of this guy and there's no one else you like than i would say talk to him and tell him everything u've ever felt for him. BUt if he doesn't want a girlfriend right now don't bug him about it... it will only make things worse. follow your heart and your desicion will be right. Maybe if you want to surprise him... don't tell him how you feel just yet and than get him something awesome for v-day and then tell him everything. sorry i can't be much of a help but i tried... anymore questions, drop them in my inbox.
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I think you should express your feeling to him, he might understand. and if nothing works out quit as fast as you want it to, then look for another guy, still keep him there, left him know a spots still open--if your still single-- and you still care for him if he changes his mind. i'm sure theres many others guys out there that have their eyes on you and you don't know. if you see a guy you may like go talk to him and get to know him.
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tell him you dont wanna wait around if nothings gonna happen. make sure he knows that your not messing around. if he really likes you he will MAKE time to have YOU as a girlfriend...get what im saying? dont put all your feelings out there though and dont get your hopes to high chances are hes gonna pick the sports over any girl.and dont worry if it doesnt go your way that just means something better is on the way.good luck girl! if you need anymore advice just ask im here for you
-brittany-
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