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feelings for a friend?
Ok so I've been best friends with this guy now for about 2 1/2 years.. We usually tell each other everything so when I had a crush on him about a year ago I told him.. he didn't like me that way..
Fast forward: He currently likes a few girls, all of whom think he's sweet but not "boyfriend material" and are my friends. This kinda hurts cause I thought I was over him but obviously not. He thinks no girl will ever like him, blah blah, and I want to let him know I do, but I'm afraid of rejection again.. what should I do? Should I tell him or just keep being a friend?
sorry this was so long..
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Tell him "thats not true cause I used to like you".
If you want him to like you youve gotta seem like a trophy to be won, not a consolation prize for not getting your mates.
If he thinks he cant have you, itll make him want you all the more trust me.
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Aww, TELL HIM!
♥ Michelle
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It wasn't long at all! Ok, hmm... when you talk to him be like " well I know this one person that likes you. " And he'll be like who? Be like ... " ehh forget it, never mind. You don't like her. "Then you know you could tell him, be like its me ... and see what he says. Everyone deals with rejection at one point or another, so no worries! If anything say you were just kidding and start laughing, try to cover it up.=) Or you can write it in a note,let him know how you feel. Sorry I'm not much help. hope everything works out, good luck! Tell me how it turns out!
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the next time he says no girls like me tell him that that isnt true and that you like him. dont be afraid of rejection because you guys will always be friends and its better to try then not trying! x0
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Tell him. If he still doesn't like you that way, dont worry about it. Its better to have tried than to have not tried at all. Who knows? His feelings could have chanced from then. Or maybe he might give you a chance to show what a great girlfriend you could be.
Good luck sweetie!
Jacki
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well..if he starts talking about how girls don't like him just be like "that's not true because i like you" don't be afraid to tell him if he doesn't like you at least your still friends
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