Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:24 pm
i've been having a really tough time with gettig over my ex boyfriend because he was everything to me- but i Need to move on- no question about it. SO theres this new guy and i like him and he likes me a lot too. But somtimes he's shy and i want him to like open up. The reason for this is because he's never had like a realy gf! which is different, but its not like he's a geek or anything, he could've gotten plenty of girls but he's never really liked a girl that much.. he's kinda picky i guess. So should i go and try this guy out? cuz he's so fun to be around.. maybe it will make me stop thinking about my ex. What about this shy thing tho? Help please =D thanks so much- i'll rate
WhatUwerDreaminOf answered Thursday February 3 2005, 12:40 pm: i think you just need to talk to him and try really hard to get him to open up.. it might tak e awhile.. but if he likes you and you like him it will probably be worth it! just take things slow.. but yea do that and i think you'll be fine!
hope i helped =)
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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:57 pm: hey well the first time i had a boyfriend or well the first time i hang out with my boyfriend i dont know why but im always shy. Let him get to no you alot like when your hanging out dont be shy be your self and tell him thinks if your sad or mad or angry at some one maybe that will help open him up.. and yes i think you should give it a try because hopefully he will help you get ove your ex ... just tip dont talk about your ex boyfrined to him. Good Luck Ashlee [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:55 pm: Nothing helps to get over your ex like a new guy.
I think you should definitely talk to him about you two hooking up and since he makes you happy, you won't think about your ex so much.
About the shy thing... don't rush him now, since he's picky. Wait a while, then tell him you'd really like it if he opened up some. Since he should REALLY like you by then, he'll try, so he could keep you happy, just like you would do for any good b/f:) hope this helps:D
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Teza answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:39 pm: well try talking to this guy a lot and get to kno him more.. if hes shy its not a really bad thing but maybe hes just scared that you wont like him or something! talk to this guy a lot more so he feels more comftrable around you! thenyou you might want to try going out with him! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
MFS answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 3:46 pm: Have you considered not worrying about guys for a while? There's nothing wrong with being boyfriendless. Just a thought.
Perhaps you should concentrate on becoming better friends with this new guy first, before you attempt to elevate the social status to something along the lines of boyfriend. Just talk to the guy. No need to force romance into it, just be friends and see where that leads. Building friendships is far more important that worrying about getting a new boyfriend. It is a good place to start. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
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