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everyday my life changes...
Ok well let me tell you the whole story! Last year i was a frosh and timid and shy and i had a boring life. I only had 2 real friends. This year I realized that this was no way to live... I decided I wanted to have A LOT of friends! One of my friends last year gets on my nerves SOOO much! So i barely hang out with her anymore because of that! but the other one and I are still best friends! Well since I'm not extremely tight with my new group yet, things are a bit sketch. Some days i feel like they reallllyyyy like me and I LOVE IT! but then other days it feels like they are just annoyed with me... i dont know what to do! Everyday its different! How do i get closer with them?
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wow i have the same exact problem... like i had only 2 real friends last year but this year i have tons but somedays we're kool together but others we're not. To tell you the truth, i kind of like having two real friends better than a bunch that some days are cool and others aren't... but i can't go back to that. I am starting to get closer with them by just using 3 way calling so every1 can be on the phone at once... like i 3 way some one and than my other friend does it and then my other until we are all on the phone together... also i try and hang out with them outside of school... its alot different andd way more fun.. and if i feel like i am being excluded i tell them and we work it out... just be more outgoing and have fun... don't go into school and be like planning what your going to do to get closer with them, just go with the flow and if anything random pops into your mind just say it cauz you can wind up getting a good laugh out of that.
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if you want to so called "bond" with a new group of friends, its always fun to go to the movies or whatever your city has to offer. Its always fun to go to shakeys and get somthin to eat and play games to get a good laugh w/ your friends
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be yourself. If they cant like you for who you really are then why bother? you dont need alot of friends to be happy but just have fun and theyll love u:-)
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