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Going to the cinema
ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks
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Hey! Well I go and make-out in a movie theather all the time. Just tell him that you have never kissed anyone and when you think the time is right just kiss him..Honey all you can do is what you feel ready for and what you feel is right. Trust me first kisses are very scary! I remember I was 12 at my ex-boyfriends house
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Well, don't rush into kissing. Alot of people do rush into it and then they relize that they didn't mean to do it. You have to decide if this is the right guy or not or if u really want your first kiss to be this one. Take it slow, and when your kiss comes I am sure it'll be special!
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well i dont really know if i can help you there because ive never made out with anyone in the back row of a movie theather but i guess maybe talk to him about how you feel? i really dont know sorry but if you want to talk to me on AIM; crazykellie2009 or oxoxCLINEoxox or on yahoo; xoxoKellieLovesYouxoxo
♥ kellie ♥
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That's not a stupid question at all, perfectly normal. A lot of people that are together don't have their first "real" kiss for a long while. One of my friends went out with this one guy and they only kissed 3 months into their relationship. I don't see anything wrong with it. It actually shows that the guys in it for you and he's not using you for sex. While your at the movies, just hint to him that you want to kiss him. I'm supposing you want a "real" kiss with tongue and all that. Just simply kiss him, then run your tongue along his lips. He should then get the hint and then just take it from there. Don't be scared to make the first move. Guys dig it when girls are "in charge".
♥ Krissy
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ok..im a 13 year old and juss like u i had boyfriends but not "proper kind"..so you are pretty lucky..but personally i dont know b/c i never been kissed..so if you feel really comfortable with him..then go with da flow..well sorry couldnt help that much..
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Well... ive never actually went out with a boy but all i know is just be yourself and things will happen automaticly. Go with the flow. If he desides to kiss you and you fell comftorble with it just lean in with him. or maybe talk to him everyonce and a while druing the movie. but dont talk to much becuase you might get bugged by the ppl infront of you :P but just take it by how things happen and all will be good.
xoxo
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Natally
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first off... dont do anything your not comfertable doing. thats just awkward for you and him and his mates. if your friends or his friends or goin..maybe u should wait whatever works for you i dont really wanna tell you how you should have ur date but just have fun
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sorry im not too great w/ this stuff but here is my suggestion: casually hold his hand, and share popcorn. look into his eyes and if he thinks thats kewl, just go for it(the kiss)! make sure you dont have popcorn kernals in your teeth! lol :P hope i helped. tell me how it went. :D
♥ :O)
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Sweetie, this doesn't sound dumb. You need to just take a chance and just kiss him. If you aren't that brave, hint it to him and start getting really close to him. I know that movie theaters aren't the most romantic places but where ever you go with your boyfriend, should be romantic. If you're going to go see a chick flick movie or any movie and if there is love parts in it or whatever, then that's the great time to kiss him. I'm really not great at this kind of advice because I'm just the type of person that will kiss a guy whenever. Well I hope I helped :) If not, then I'm sorry.
-Karen
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From personal experience...people aren't going to be looking, they'll be watching a movie...
Just make eye contact with him, subtly make a move in...let him follow up...and voila...you'll be kissing...
Honestly, you'd be surprised what people do in theaters...
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