heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!
angieroonie answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 9:10 pm: it's not illegal to date but DONT sleep with him. now THATS illegal. really illegal. he can even go to jail!
Ask_me_a_question answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:47 pm: Well you can "go out" because there's nothing legally or physically binding about that... but he can't have sex with you because that is statutory rape.
So have fun i guess..
emaleekate answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:43 pm: is this for you or a friend cuz it sounds like your a guy trying to ask out a guy look -because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out-?? confusing post me back and explain it pleasee [ emaleekate's advice column | Ask emaleekate A Question ]
Bellesono answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:32 pm: Dear Illegal,
I am not too sure on this one. I think it depends on which state you live in. I am almost 17 and my fiance is 18. We have been a couple for almost a year now so I do not look at it as being illegal. You might have to keep the relationship on the down low if the two of you end up together. Please make sure that he is not just trying to get into your pants because you are 15. There are guys who will do that to you because you are younger. If he respects you and cares about the relationship, see if he can go without any sexual activities for a while. That will tell you whether or not he is worth it. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon [ Bellesono's advice column | Ask Bellesono A Question ]
Igotamonopoly answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:30 pm: Yechnically, it is illegal, and if your parents find out, you could both get charged, and i think that those are felonies, so if I were you, then I wouldn't go out, for legal purposes. I would suggest a friendship though! [ Igotamonopoly's advice column | Ask Igotamonopoly A Question ]
SilentTears answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:28 pm: yes an no because its not to date but to have sex it is
Emily88 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:58 pm: actually by law the age limit to be boyfriend and girfriend is 4 years apart. so you just got it! have fun and fill me in on what happens!
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imcrazyovau answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:45 pm: Yes and no. I should have put no first so you wouldnt get mad.. anyways the rule is if your 15 you would do half your age pplus 7. Whatever you get is the oldest you can date or do sexual stuff with. It's illegal to go have sex with him but its not illegal to go out with him. Lets say he's like a friend and you juss hang out. Isn't that the same. Also you can hug, kiss, hold hands... but not sexual in bed or couch. or tub lol [ imcrazyovau's advice column | Ask imcrazyovau A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:40 pm: Well i guess if your parents except it then its okay.. my mom said that if both parents except it then its okay.. and not to worry about it.. im 16 and my mom said she couldnt say anything bout me goin out with an 18 year old if i wanted to..Much luv [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Karen answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 7:38 pm: Yes, it is illegal, well where I live it is, because if your parents find out about you going out with him, they can bring him to court. If you ever have sex with him (just giving an example), it is considered sagitory rape, since he is an adult and you are a minor. You can still go out with him but you can't do anything and your best bet is to just wait until you are legal. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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