Hey. i'm emily and i love to give advice. just dont ask me the questions "o i'm so fat!, or, o i'm so ugly!, or how do i get him to ask me out!?". the answers to those questions are, be happy with yourself on the inside and flirt. okay? moving on then. i'd like to use my time as an advicenator to help people who really need the advice. not to the next girl who thinks she's fat or ugly. because you all are beautiful. thanks in advance for all your marvelous questions and i hope i helped out!
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Has anyone here ever heard of the band Panic! At the Disco? (link)
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I HAVE! I LOVE THAT BAND SO MUCH.
my favorite song is "I write sins, not tradgeties".
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im 14/f - 5.5 - 115 - i think im totally fat! i cant help it.. and the problem is .. is my hips!! and that leads to my theighs!! omg i hate them soo muchh!! my hips stick out soo muchh! and my friends are all flat on the side! and i think my theighs are huge! but they arent that big.. but the thing is .. is when i wear jeans my hips stick out alot!! and it looks like my legs/theighs are huge! and i hate it alot. i wear a size 16 in abercrombie & fitch .. and a 1 or 2 in other stores.. and i think im soo fat!! can someone please help mee!! i give 5's !! =]
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AdInA is completely right alllll the way.
emily
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need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high (link)
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although a laptop would most definitely be a lot less work and will be a big help for school and such... a puppy gives you sooo much joy that technology can't. i would definitely go for the puppy.
emily
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Ok, So like 3 nites aqo i went to the bathroom & there was blood on my underwear .. so i told my mom blah blah blah and shez like its your period .. [ 1st time ] and then i didnt bleed anymore at all .. but the day before that my stomache was makin werid noises [ NEVER D0ES ] && i had discharqe .. i still have discharqe but no blood .. i had cramps the next day and i felt bloated and all the symtomps BUT no more accually blood .. so do i have it or not ?? (link)
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when you first get it its very unconsistent. like you could get it for about three days and never have it again for another 3 months or you could have it every 2 weeks. but after about a year or so it will start to get more consistant and pretty soon you'll know just about the time when it comes so you can be prepared for it.
hope i helped.
Emily
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thnx for you advise but yo what do u exspect me to practice on? sum random dudes on the street..lol (link)
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that would work. or a pillow? i read in a magazine that jesse mccartney practiced on his mirror but i think thats kinda weird making out iwth yourself. but whatever you think works.
hih
emily
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okay...i wanna go around and make out w/ people and everything but im afraid they'll think im a bad kisser...what shuld i do? (link)
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practice you loser.
hih
emily
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Is there any way to make your head smaller, or atleast seem smaller? (yes, the head where your brain is) I have a big head/ forehead. Is there anything I can do? (link)
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i dont think you can physically make it smaller but if you dont already have bangs, then bangs probably will make your forehead seem smaller because it covers more of it then if you didnt have bangs.
hope i helped.
Emily
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What energy food/drink gives you the most energy and makes you hyper? (link)
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RED BULL AND HAPPY BUNNY DRINKS!!!
i looooooove getting hyper at the mall off of those. ;-)
hih.
Emily
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ok it me the same person with the problem about gefri and gerald um but when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with gefri hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how (link)
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just let him guide you i guess. and even if you are a bad french kisser he wont tell EVERYONE. i dont think he'll really care.
hih.
EMily
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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my x boyfriend are broke up but we still act like were together. we still say i love you and everything. but he is moving to georgia and if he wants to get back together i dont know what to do cause i really love him but i dont know if any one has advice plz help i rate high!! (link)
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you gotta let him go. there are always more boys around. but i'm not saying you have to loose all contact with him... you can still keep in touch. just dont wait for him b/c he's probably moving on and getting new girls... and you have to get new guys....
emily
ps- could you please tell me what the guys name is. i think i know him.
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I'm 29 and I've been dating a 27 yo girl for about 8 months now and I thought things were going great. However, recently she planned her holiday season (thanksgiving and christmas) without even asking me what I was doing. Her rationale was that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married. She tells me she loves me and doesn't understand why I was surprised that she made all her plans (which exclude me) without even talking to me about what she wanted to do. I have no intention of trying to change her plans. I just thought it was common courtesy to discuss it first and hopefully find a way to spend the holidays together. Your thoughts? (link)
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you are absoulutely right. she should have discussed it with you because you obviously were hoping on spending the holidays with her... right? try telling her you love her very much and was hoping to spend the holidays with her and if it wont be too much trouble to include you in her plans. she might be thrilled that you want to spend time with her or she might be hesitant because she was thinking of spending the holidays with girlfriends or family.
i hope everything goes well.
emily
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RATE HIGH i have brown hair with blonde highlights a oval face a a big jewish nose and a barely visible upper lip what are some ways i can look different without a lot of makeup or surgery because i am going to another skool and i want to change (link)
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dye your hair darker or lighter... like so its all one color.... no highlights. use a plumping lip gloss so your lips look fuller. there's not much you can do about your nose though... and long hair with lots of layers and side bangs looks good with oval faces.
hope i helped.
emily
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hahah i smoke bout 2 bags of weed a day should i stop?? (link)
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yes dumbass.
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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)
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okay. first of all its alright to be nervous. i mean everyone would be nervous if they are going to a new school and dont know anyone. but i can guarantee that you WILL find friends. people ALWAYS do. and if you cant find your classes... its ok! just ask a hott guy to show you where they are.
hope i helped.
emily
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this is stupid but i'll give 5's. if you want to get motovated to do something like work out everyday or practice for a sport everyday does anyone have any ways that they get motovated for something like that? thanks in advanced (link)
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you have to want to do it to be motivated about it. have a goal. you want that hott bod? it takes work. if your having fun while your doing running or sports or working out... your more likely to do it more often because you enjoy it.
fill me in on how it all works out.
emily
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my leg/hip cracks wen i move it sometimes..its annoyingggg anyway i can get it to stop?! please (link)
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not really. it might just be something your body does naturally.... like being able to pop your finger or shoulder out of its socket and putting it back in. maybe try stretching your hips for a few minutes a day. like straddle stretching or twisting your hips.
hope i helped.
emily
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well i recently live in florida but was born an d raised in new york. well i just came back from a visit to new york to see my dad and winded up talkin to this guy whos on the 5th floor of my dads apartment he has an identical twin brother and it turns out they both like me . his name is gefri (jeffrey) and his brother is gerald. well heres problem #1. i really like gefri and im going back to new york in 8 mos. but people tell me hes a playa and i dont want him to do that to me while im ova here in fl and i dont like not wanna break up with him cause i reaaaaaaallllllllllyyyyyyyyy like him . problem #2 i kinda like his brother too .......
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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well you can always try out gefri and if it doesnt work out... go to gerald. wow. lucky you.... twins! but if you dont want to hurt anyone's feelings or if you dont want your own feelings to be hurt, than you can just stay friends with both of them.... possibly friends with benifits... ;-)
tell me how it all works out!
emily
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Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.
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Heather seems like a nice girl. most girls are willing to see whats on the inside and not the outside. if she tells you she doesnt care how you look, then you should believe it when she says she likes you for you. so go and visit her. take some chances and if it doesnt work out... there's always another good thing just down the road.
emily
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A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted? (link)
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it sounds as if you slightly already are addicted. you need to stop... now. it leads to so many bad and disgusting outcomes such as heart, lung, brain, or mouth cancer. you'll get disgusting coughs, your teeth and fingernails become yellow, your hair becomes brittle and you smell. nobody really wants to hang out with someone like that. there are plenty of things to do to stop from becomming addicted. you could chew gum or possibly straws whenever you feel a craving. if its starting to get to be something that chewing on things is not good enough, they always have things like patches or medications or even nicotine gum. another alternative is to ask your friends to please not smoke aorund you because you've told them before that your not very fond of smoking. if they are true friends, they will stop doing it around you. you need to stop smoking NOW before it gets any worse. i hope everything works out alright.
emily
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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its alright if he thinks she's hott. so does a million other guys. and i'm sure he thinks your just as beautiful. as long as he's not comparing you to her than just let it go... its not like he's ever going to meet or go out with kristin... he's got you!
emily
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