i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do?
ESMEDINzBABE answered Thursday August 4 2005, 10:37 am: Well i think you shouldnt make such a big deal out of it itz a gurl off t.v. its not like hes gonna try and get with her soo i wuldnt worrie about it!! hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~* [ ESMEDINzBABE's advice column | Ask ESMEDINzBABE A Question ]
Nevaeh314 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 11:01 pm: How long have you guys been dating? Trust is a major foundation in any relationship, and if you trust eachother, I'm guessing that your boyfriend feels that you and he can discuss the physical characteristics of another person (i.e. 'Kristin is hot') without having you get jealous, because if you're in a good relationship, it's /you/ he likes, and not your looks. And he knows that a person's looks mean very little. Have some faith in him, if you love eachother, there's nothing to worry about. Hope this helps :)
Love,
Nevaeh [ Nevaeh314's advice column | Ask Nevaeh314 A Question ]
portuprincess7 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 8:44 pm: its natural to get jealous but its dumb to fight over him thinking kristin is hot because that is unrealistic....its not like he will ever even meet her and i am sure you think other people besides your boyfriend is hot...try to be understanding and dont always let the jealousy take control of you because you'll just end up pushing him away with all the fighting...hope this helps
~alli [ portuprincess7's advice column | Ask portuprincess7 A Question ]
gUeSsHoO278 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 5:29 pm: theres no reason to be jealous...hes with you because he likes YOU...and besides dont u think orlando bloom is hott? how would u feel if he got upset everytime you watched a movie with orlando bloom [ gUeSsHoO278's advice column | Ask gUeSsHoO278 A Question ]
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 5:10 pm: IT'S A TV SHOW. The chance of him EVER actually meeting her is VERY small. Chill out. You're being hypocritical by getting mad, because I'm sure there are celebrities that you think are hot. So chill out, chances are he'll never meet her anyways.
<b>♥</b> Melissa [ xRoOxiSxBlOnDex's advice column | Ask xRoOxiSxBlOnDex A Question ]
IndieKidsCanRock answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:34 pm: ♥Don't worry about it, try not to feel so jealous. This is only a celebrity crush, i'm sure you have them too. Everyone has them. Try to be a little more accepting, it's not like he will ever have a chance with her. [ IndieKidsCanRock's advice column | Ask IndieKidsCanRock A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:24 pm: Every girl gets jealous, but you must understand that every guy will have a crush on female celebrities. Every girl goes through it with their boyfriend. And some girls really don't care, and some do. But the secret to not caring is, to just know that your boyfriend will never meet this celebrity, hes with you. And sometimes it helps to ask him how much he loves you, because it will get his mind off of the celebrity when he talks or thinks about you. Basically, just watxh it with him and spend that time with him watching it. Just take it as old news because it will be soon.
EvilOompa answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:20 pm: Its perfectly normal to feel jealous, but its also perfectly normal for a guy to think a girl is hott. Unless hes like, asking a girl out or something, dont stress about it.
Hanny answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:12 pm: Tell him how you feel. Let him know that you dont care that he thinks shes hot or whatever but you do care when he makes a BIG deal out of her with little or no regard to hw you feel. And appologize for the fights.
=)
Hope i helped some.
-*-Hanny-*- [ Hanny's advice column | Ask Hanny A Question ]
basketballhunnii_xo answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:11 pm: hmm..i think you should sayy you dont feel comfortanble with him doing that, and ask him if he does itt all the time?! But really you should just lay back & trust him. Do you think any guys are hott? It like the same thing, but just trust him. [ basketballhunnii_xo's advice column | Ask basketballhunnii_xo A Question ]
gingeralex answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:08 pm: ok personally.. i think hes doing it because he wants to get you madd and make you jelous just for his own personal male ego! he likes to see that you get jelous over other girls but knows that shes on tv and nothin would ever happen so hes safe.. he likes to get your attention thats what all guys want! hope i helped
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BumbleBee035 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:37 pm: She's on T.V. and he's here with you. Come on, he's like never gonna meet her. I'd tell him that it makes you feel weird when he just talks about her. He's being rude saying how hot she is and not complementing you. Let him know you feel jealous and that you don't mean it. It's some crazy love thing that happens to anyone. Hopefully, he'll understand. [ BumbleBee035's advice column | Ask BumbleBee035 A Question ]
Emily88 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:36 pm: its alright if he thinks she's hott. so does a million other guys. and i'm sure he thinks your just as beautiful. as long as he's not comparing you to her than just let it go... its not like he's ever going to meet or go out with kristin... he's got you!
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:31 pm: oh my gosh i hate that female lol she's so annoying.. but yea um i can understand where your coming from with this my boyfriend makes me mad when he says another girl has a better ten then me or if her nails look better then mine it kinda makes me mad and i become the most jealous person.. then he always tells me **baby you know i love you the way you are** but sometimes i think he does it just to see me mad cause he thinks its cute which of course i dont.. try talking to him about it.. tell him how it makes you feel.. ask him why he continues to do it.. i bet your like me about it too sometimes you have a good days about it and dont give a crap cause your not in the mood but then other times you want to bust him in the mouth.. lol well like i said try talkin to him.. or maybe start doing it to him like say guys are hott and what you like about em.. i do that to my boyfriend about rappers he listens to and he dont listen to em around me now.. i mean dont drive him crazy about it but just see how he likes it.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
ari02 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:25 pm: maybe you should tell him that you are jelous or thats his point when he tells you that she lo0ks hot hes probably tryign to make you jelous on purpose so try not to worry too much
Advicegrl4u answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:17 pm: tell him that shes never gonna be there 4 him u are
I hope i helped and keep me posted
<33333 kristin
p.s: if you need a more specific answer just ask me!!! [ Advicegrl4u's advice column | Ask Advicegrl4u A Question ]
crazyoutyamindisback answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:09 pm: just think about it do you actully think he has a chance with kristion well maybe if hes hot but i dont think you live by there and if yah do then i dunno im pretty sure you watch shows that you think guys are hot but just cuz you think there hot does not mean your gonna date lol just think about that while hes watching luguna beach well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox
~kelly [ crazyoutyamindisback's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamindisback A Question ]
not_your_star34 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:52 pm: Just remember that he doesn't know her. He thinks she's hot. That's it.
Chances are, he won't ever meet her. He can't cheat on you with her.
And, face it, he's a guy. He thinks girls are hot, just like you think guys are hot. You can't make him not think that a certain girl is hot.
AND, just because he thinks she's hot, doesn't mean that he likes you any less. When he says things like "Kristen is so hot!" just act calm, and keep thinking of what I just told you.
fatalxheart answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:47 pm: Guys are going to think girls are hott no matter if they're in a relationship or not.
But see, girls are the same way, I do say "so and so is hott, omg" and my boyfriend doesn't care. and I don't care if he says someone's hott. And this is 'cause I know just because you rate someone's looks doesn't mean they want to be with them.
And yeah, I have bad jealousy too. Just stay calm about it. It's not like he can meet the girl from Laguna Beach. [ fatalxheart's advice column | Ask fatalxheart A Question ]
X0C0URT answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:34 pm: Why does every guy think she's so hot? I don't get it. Anyways just don't worry about stuff like that. There's no chance in the world that he could ever hook up with her or even meet her, so there's no reason for you to be concerned. If it were one of your friends or something, then maybe you'd have a reason to be a little jealous. Next time he comments on how hot Kristin is just be like "Yeah Stephen is really hot too!" Or something like that. Maybe he'll realize how annoying it is and stop saying it. Hope this helps!
xxfilmingfrenzyxx answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:31 pm: Well, in every relationship you are going to think that other people are good looking. So, maybe you should just try to ignore it and keep thinking that no matter how much he thinks another person it 'hott' he's with you isn't he?
For the other things. Just try to realx a little. Cut him some slack and think about what if he was doing this to you.
MummuM answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:27 pm: I used to be the same way, then I realized how stupid I was acting. Think of it this way, there is no way that he could ever be with this person. So by him saying that a star is hot, it's okay because you know they could never actually be together. I'm sure he gets jealous when you said some star on T.V. is hot as well, that's just how relationships are. Just try not to get so jealous over someone he's never going to be able to see. Plus, he's with you. So there has to be something special that he loves! Don't worry about the girls that he finds hot on T.V.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
xoredsoxnation9 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:24 pm: Dont worry bout it ... i mean, if he is nice to yu and treats yu with respect thats all that matters. It's not something to be jealous over ... cus c'mon, everyone as a celebrity crush. The chances of him even being anywhere near Kristen r like zero, so theres no reason to be jealous. Yu know whether or not he likes so, so just calm down and relax. Hope i helped <3 [ xoredsoxnation9's advice column | Ask xoredsoxnation9 A Question ]
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