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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me (link)
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wow thats a hard situation.. as a christian im gonna tell you the truth.. the Bible says that you should not be unequally yoked..basically means you cant be with anyone thats not the same religion as you.. personally i did that a few times and it didnt work out! if she really loves you maybe you guys can come up with something that works? explain to her wat u believe and talk to each other about it..
hope i helped!!
gingeralex
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hey.. Im samantha.. and well
I went to a new school this year.. because the school i was in last year and the years before closed down. And it was a small school, one class for each grade. And so i came up into this huge jr. high. and my old friends.. well we arnt friends anymore...and i met these new people and we are like best best best friends.. and we alllwayyys hung out. And well i met this new set of people. who are cheerleaders like me. and we are alike.. and well i dont know who to hang out with because they are both the best!... and every time i hang out with them .. the other people get mad at me .. or if i hang out with them.. then those people get mad at me. And my friend hayley .. who i met this year ( not the cheerleader) well she hangs out with my friend sara more then me. And i think they like hate me now because im hanging with the cheerleaders.. but they are awsome..
What can i do.. How do i hang out with both settsss offf people??
help.. i rate high!!!!
Sam! (link)
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omg that happened to me too!! my best friend became friends with other people when we entered high school.. let me just say this.. as things change you change.. you become a different persona nd its not neccesarily a bad thing! but just remember who your TRUE friends are and think to yourself.. who would u rather be with? whose truly your BEST friends.. and if you say both.. then balance out your time.. i have to do that with my church friends and my school friends.. its tough but if they really care about you theyll respect your decision in what you choose to do.. i say balance out your time!
hope i helped
GingerAlex
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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ok personally.. i think hes doing it because he wants to get you madd and make you jelous just for his own personal male ego! he likes to see that you get jelous over other girls but knows that shes on tv and nothin would ever happen so hes safe.. he likes to get your attention thats what all guys want! hope i helped
-gingeralex
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ok so my boyfriends best friend died in a fire and hes beside himself plus im starting highschool and we dont live near each other so he keeps telling me he needs me the most now and he cant have me he thinks im unhappy with him and im not im extremely happy when hes sober truth of the matter is tho he tried to drink himself to death if it hadnt been for my friend hed be dead by now hes just so unhappy and im unhappy knowing i cant do anything to fix it but what worries me is that he doesnt care that im so unhappy now theres nothing hell let me do about the situation he promised me he wouldnt try to kill himself but hes still drinking weve broken up or whatever but i miss hearing from him " i love you" and i miss saying it yesterday i was talking to him and he just sayd i gotta go bye and it hurt me so bad not seeing the i love you more than anything at the end im trying to be there for him but hes not letting me its like hes trying to shut me out i dont know what i can do i love him to much to just let him go and be in this depression i want to help but he wont let me what can i do??? -broken hearted (link)
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wow thats a tought situation hun.. as for you two being unhappy.. its a hard thing to deal with.. just let him know that you care for him.. maybe he needs to hear it! who knows maybe hes waiting for you to tell him that you love him? as for his suicidal attempt... thats pretty serious stuff.. he sounds like he needs someone as you said.. if i were you id talk to him about what hes missing in his life? maybe he needs serious help or maybe he doesnt.. if you say he wont let you help.. then the best thing to do for him is tell him your always there and that he can lean on you! hope i helped...
-gingeralex
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