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well.. im stuck wiith best friends?
hey.. Im samantha.. and well
I went to a new school this year.. because the school i was in last year and the years before closed down. And it was a small school, one class for each grade. And so i came up into this huge jr. high. and my old friends.. well we arnt friends anymore...and i met these new people and we are like best best best friends.. and we alllwayyys hung out. And well i met this new set of people. who are cheerleaders like me. and we are alike.. and well i dont know who to hang out with because they are both the best!... and every time i hang out with them .. the other people get mad at me .. or if i hang out with them.. then those people get mad at me. And my friend hayley .. who i met this year ( not the cheerleader) well she hangs out with my friend sara more then me. And i think they like hate me now because im hanging with the cheerleaders.. but they are awsome..
What can i do.. How do i hang out with both settsss offf people??
help.. i rate high!!!!
Sam!
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Just manage your time. Balance it between the two groups. I know it sounds hard like you have to juggle your friendship all the time. But if it's worth it to you, then just be careful. You might have to chose some day so just be prepared. But for now, balance your energies and attention between them both and it should be fine!!!
4Him, Disciple (plz rate and send comments!!!)
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Try to get them to hang out together. They may end up being really good friends. Until then, you need to explain to both groups that you can have other friends, and don't worry about what they think. These people are YOUR friends, and it's not their decision!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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hey okay welll that happend to me in 6th grade and i was going between the two groups for the longest time then i had a party and invited both groups and tehy got to kno one another and now were all really good friends......if i were you i would say good things about the other group and try to get both groups to meet and wish for the best!
hope i helped.....
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omg that happened to me too!! my best friend became friends with other people when we entered high school.. let me just say this.. as things change you change.. you become a different persona nd its not neccesarily a bad thing! but just remember who your TRUE friends are and think to yourself.. who would u rather be with? whose truly your BEST friends.. and if you say both.. then balance out your time.. i have to do that with my church friends and my school friends.. its tough but if they really care about you theyll respect your decision in what you choose to do.. i say balance out your time!
hope i helped
GingerAlex
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hang out with all of them together and maybe they will grow to like one another
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